"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do you part ways with a girl who has a bf?

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tony-montana

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so i was saying in another thread i was talking alot to this azn girl in class and im leaving the class for got on thursday so i wont be seeing her again. since she has a boyfriend i figured i cant really get her number and start calling her. shes already given me her msn but she stated she hasnt been on in a while and doesnt use it much. i was thinking maybe the day when i say goodbye just hand her a piece of paper with my msn addy and my phone number and tell her "alright, so ill see you later and if you ever wanna talk or hang out, heres my email and number."

and off i go... ?

or dont bother? no big deal eh. i figure if she wanted to hang out so bad she'd ask?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you really,really to be friends with her,just friends,nothing more,then go ahead and give her your contact info. Nothing wrong if you two want to keep in touch. But if you secretly are hoping for the two of you to possibly start dating,then I'd just say goodbye and leave it at that.
 
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