"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do you part ways with a girl who has a bf?

tony-montana

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so i was saying in another thread i was talking alot to this azn girl in class and im leaving the class for got on thursday so i wont be seeing her again. since she has a boyfriend i figured i cant really get her number and start calling her. shes already given me her msn but she stated she hasnt been on in a while and doesnt use it much. i was thinking maybe the day when i say goodbye just hand her a piece of paper with my msn addy and my phone number and tell her "alright, so ill see you later and if you ever wanna talk or hang out, heres my email and number."

and off i go... ?

or dont bother? no big deal eh. i figure if she wanted to hang out so bad she'd ask?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Igetit!

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If you really,really to be friends with her,just friends,nothing more,then go ahead and give her your contact info. Nothing wrong if you two want to keep in touch. But if you secretly are hoping for the two of you to possibly start dating,then I'd just say goodbye and leave it at that.
 
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