Has anyone ever been in this situation where a girl is trying to overcome a really hard relationship and she has a lot of interest in you, but then you later realize that you were a reobound? This happened to me fairly recently and now she considers me her best guy friend. How do you recognize and overcome this type of relationship? Right now, I'm certain that I've already out of the running, but I was wondering what to do in the future
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How Do You Overcome the Rebound?
- Thread starter DaneB
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Don't chase another man's table scraps. Next her as soon as she starts pulling this crap. Ex boyfriend or not, if this girl was even remotely interested in you then you'd be with her right now. If she had high IL in you she would have completely forgotten about her ex by now. Real men don't sit around and wait.
Wait...you're only a rebound if she ****s you because she's upset over her relationship. If she friends you because of her relationship, well, then you're not a rebound, you're just a friend. 
There are ways to get out of the friendzone (as long as you've not dated), but I'm no expert there, so you'll have to wait for someone else to answer.
There are ways to get out of the friendzone (as long as you've not dated), but I'm no expert there, so you'll have to wait for someone else to answer.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Being the rebound guy, theres only one thing to do. Bang her senseless.
Don't try anything else.
If she wants a relationship give her time. Use that time to bang other women.
Don't try anything else.
If she wants a relationship give her time. Use that time to bang other women.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I've had sex a few times taking advantage of the rebound factor :
girl : Ya, I just broke up with my bf ...
Me : Well, I know what you need... a REBOUND!! *points to self*
(some chicks get offended tho)
girl : Ya, I just broke up with my bf ...
Me : Well, I know what you need... a REBOUND!! *points to self*
(some chicks get offended tho)
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Time will heal you, as it does with most things
There's nothing you really need to do in the future. If you ever get in a situation with a recovering girl, you will remember the hardship you felt from the previous girl, & know it's a no go area