How Do You Not Care ?

[Groovy]

People act like changing your mindset and internal programming can be done over night. That couldn't be more wrong. Like a person's body who hasn't worked out before starts working out, they're still going to look pretty much the same the very next day. Changing the mindset is very much the same way, there seems to be this myth that people literally became DJ's overnight and the right advice needs to be given to cause a paradigm shift.

Excellent post!!

That's why I think it's very important to get to the ROOT of the problems... First you have to remove ALL of your negative toughts, and only then you can expect to start being more and more positive!

If you're full of negativity, you may say to yourself: Okay, I'll be positive today! But that's like dropping drops of positivity in a sea of negativity... You have to take all of your bad toughts out, and then you can start putting good toughts in.

A negative tought in a person that is very positive won't have much effect.
A positive tought in a person that's very negative won't have much effect.

I don't know if I explained this right, but if you have feedback, please send!

 

[DonGorgon]

How do you just wake up one morning and think "i dont give a **** what anyone thinks" Seriously how do you do it?

The reality is that they never really "dont care", instead they expend large amounts of energy suppressing the reactive behaviors normally exibited by a caring person. They put on a front to convince themselves and others that they are immune to human nature. This results in stress due to pent up emotional energy which eventually comes forth in a very dysfunctional "acting out" phase.

Beware of those who "cant care".. These are the broken, hopeless soles that walk among us and engage in destructive sociopathic anti social behavior.

 

[Desdinova]

When you've dealt with enough 5hit, a55holes and rejection, not caring comes quite naturally.

 

[verysuave]

when you are VERY BUSY doing other things thats occupying your time, trust me, it will start to show that you won't care about other things. And it will show naturally

 

[intrextrovert]

Either get some real bad **** going down in your life (I have much bigger ****in problems, this girl doesn't mean ****) or get used to whatever you don't want to care about.