How do you mentally get over being late to the game? (no girlfriend before 21)

[drakeisfire]

Went to visit my family a week ago and my little brother who is in college now brought home his girlfriend, not bad looking at all but he was visiting the family too. Dude smashed her a few times and parents didn't mind.

So I've actually picked up my game after college and have been getting laid through tinder and bumble as well as nightgame but I feel real robbed after doing what my brother did. It is not even the sex that gets me, it is that audience and that taboo factor that does. I hate that I could not bring home a girl during my high school and college years, take her to my parents' home, bang the life out of her and just have that experience.

Now I am in my 20s, my own pad and everything but the game just seems so boring to me now.

Its like I bring a girl home, **** her and that's it.

I don't really want that and I feel like I missed out on something big. I wish that I experienced what my little brother did but life just happens after 21.

It sucks that us men can get laid easily when sex is not so taboo anymore. Adults sleep with each other and life goes on, so what, no one cares right?

I hate that! I wish I was experiencing what my brother did or that kind of an adrenaline rush that comes with sex.

 

[marmel75]

So go move back in with your Mom then and bring girls over while she is sleeping. Problem solved.

 

[Fzatf]

So go move back in with your Mom then and bring girls over while she is sleeping. Problem solved.

Lol

I dated late too and I look back and wish I had gotten girls in high school, but I got in my own way and didn't even approach girls. Does it kind of suck? Sure, but life goes on and we improve at our own pace. I say get a good notch count while you still can and once you're satisfied you can consider what you want out of life. If you want to settle down with one girl or keep plate spinning as long as you can.

If you ever have a son, take what you learned and make sure he doesn't go through the same thing you did. If not just learn that the way you feel like sex is no big deal now is the same as you would've felt had you had sex earlier in life. You only regret it because you feel like you missed out. Hell, I feel like I'm missing out on what live could be if I was wealthy. I'm going back to school so I can get a better career and see what life is like with a bit more money available to me.

 

[Fzatf]

If you're looking for a rush when it comes to sex, what if you have sex in public places where you can get caught? One of my more memorable bl0wjobs my ex-wife gave me was in public.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Can totally relate and keep in mind that the older you get, the worse it gets.

In my case its not the taboo factor that plays a role but more the "hit if first syndrome", no matter how hot they are, it doesnt turn me on so much to bang them if the are regular in the c0ck carousel.

Also they can drop me and forget me with the same ease I can do it on them, it wasnt like that in late teens and early 20s, you felt jealousy and they were crying.

I would like to talk about how unfeminine they get with age but its a topic I would rather avoid...just like taxes and hairloss.

I still rememeber when I was in my early teens and I kissed a girl for the first time, she wrote something in my school diary and I kept it for years....right now I lose their phone numbers.

 

[drakeisfire]

this is some deep stuff......

 

[AttackFormation]

I would like to talk about how unfeminine they get with age

Go ahead dude

 

[Mike32ct]

High school and college are over. Max out your notch count now while you still have hair. I only got to nine lays, but it’s ok for a major late bloomer.

As for an “audience?” There is nobody that you need to impress. But, if some healthy bragging makes you feel better, post a LR.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Can totally relate and keep in mind that the older you get, the worse it gets.

In my case its not the taboo factor that plays a role but more the "hit if first syndrome", no matter how hot they are, it doesnt turn me on so much to bang them if the are regular in the c0ck carousel.

Also they can drop me and forget me with the same ease I can do it on them, it wasnt like that in late teens and early 20s, you felt jealousy and they were crying.

I would like to talk about how unfeminine they get with age but its a topic I would rather avoid...just like taxes and hairloss.

I still rememeber when I was in my early teens and I kissed a girl for the first time, she wrote something in my school diary and I kept it for years....right now I lose their phone numbers.

They get less feminine with age due to the yin-yang balance. You see, women encroach on males masculine ground and beat it back. They are allowed to "win" these contest by society, the courts and men just being dumb and unaware. I'm glad you noticed too.