"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how do you meet women when you dont have social circle

evan12

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I moved to new city , and I am completely stranger there ,I hit on bars and clubs ,super markets and coffee shops , but it seem pickup woman as a completely stranger is hard and I am tired from that ( more than one year without good results )
how do you guys find women outside of your social circle and workplace ?
any idea will be welcomed
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get bettet at cold approaching / get hobbies that involve groups that have women in them
 

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Yep improve cold approaches and do more daygaming. Some of your spots should be good enough for this that you've mentioned. Go to parks, if you belong to a gym then find some there you can talk to as well? Living in a city you need to keep your options/eyes open for these opportunities. For example, you are waiting to get your car serviced by a mechanic and mostly women will be there bored and waiting around as well. Try different bars, not just the same ones since you've likely got plenty of choices. Check for art museums, history exhibits, interactive exhibits, sporting events, horse races, casinos, etc.
 
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