"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you meet women when you dont have social circle

evan12

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I moved to new city , and I am completely stranger there ,I hit on bars and clubs ,super markets and coffee shops , but it seem pickup woman as a completely stranger is hard and I am tired from that ( more than one year without good results )
how do you guys find women outside of your social circle and workplace ?
any idea will be welcomed
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

yuppaz

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Get bettet at cold approaching / get hobbies that involve groups that have women in them
 

BMX

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Yep improve cold approaches and do more daygaming. Some of your spots should be good enough for this that you've mentioned. Go to parks, if you belong to a gym then find some there you can talk to as well? Living in a city you need to keep your options/eyes open for these opportunities. For example, you are waiting to get your car serviced by a mechanic and mostly women will be there bored and waiting around as well. Try different bars, not just the same ones since you've likely got plenty of choices. Check for art museums, history exhibits, interactive exhibits, sporting events, horse races, casinos, etc.
 
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