"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you meet and become friends with guys good with girls?

khash

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hey guys,

I have a few close friends who are not good with girls at all and I dont really have any friends who are good with women. They are pretty cool guys who are fun to hang out with but not the best idea to hang out with them if you want to pick up women. whenever I go out with them, I feel like they are hindering my process with the ladies and they are. I feel such that if I go alone I can do seduction much better, but I don't feel comfortable going out alone.

how do you meet guys who are natural with the laides and hang out with them? It is very hard to make friends these days!!

P.S Is anyone in this forum from Toronto?!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rocky_mtn

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When you are out at the bar/clubs, if you see a natural DJ at the bar, seperate youself from your friends, and go up and order a drink. As you are getting served, tell him that you saw a couple of HB9s (and if you say hotbabe9, he will know what you are talking bout) and its more that one man could handle and you need an experienced wingman. A natural DJ usually won't turn down a chance to meet up with some hotties, Just work it up, like "hey, those two are nice, I bet you're good with the women, well lets go get em" or "hey they are hot, I've been scoping them out, but two on one isn't fair, so catch my back/ be my wing"
Just try not to sound gay.
 

DarkLight

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Just try not to sound gay.
lol... I'd drop the "so catch my back" then.

Anyways... not all DJ's are hip to the lingo of the community. There are naturals out there, that have no idea bout the acronyms, etc.

Besides that... good enough idea.

Others I could think of would be...
The wingman thread in here (obviously).
Getting a job in a social environment, like a restaraunt.
(great for anything social... its always such a scene, and you work w. loads of different peeps)
Bullsh!ttin w. some dudes at the gym.
Friends parties, etc.

Just be more social yourself. Expand your network, make new friends. Surely you'll connect to some more Suaver cats, that are cool.

And flat out... if you saw some suave fvcker, and asked him whats up w. women, etc... he'd probably be flattered and give you minute of his day to share the art of Juan'in it.

But once again, Rocky's idea was a good situational hook. Cheers'
 
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