"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you meet and become friends with guys good with girls?

khash

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hey guys,

I have a few close friends who are not good with girls at all and I dont really have any friends who are good with women. They are pretty cool guys who are fun to hang out with but not the best idea to hang out with them if you want to pick up women. whenever I go out with them, I feel like they are hindering my process with the ladies and they are. I feel such that if I go alone I can do seduction much better, but I don't feel comfortable going out alone.

how do you meet guys who are natural with the laides and hang out with them? It is very hard to make friends these days!!

P.S Is anyone in this forum from Toronto?!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rocky_mtn

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When you are out at the bar/clubs, if you see a natural DJ at the bar, seperate youself from your friends, and go up and order a drink. As you are getting served, tell him that you saw a couple of HB9s (and if you say hotbabe9, he will know what you are talking bout) and its more that one man could handle and you need an experienced wingman. A natural DJ usually won't turn down a chance to meet up with some hotties, Just work it up, like "hey, those two are nice, I bet you're good with the women, well lets go get em" or "hey they are hot, I've been scoping them out, but two on one isn't fair, so catch my back/ be my wing"
Just try not to sound gay.
 

DarkLight

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Just try not to sound gay.
lol... I'd drop the "so catch my back" then.

Anyways... not all DJ's are hip to the lingo of the community. There are naturals out there, that have no idea bout the acronyms, etc.

Besides that... good enough idea.

Others I could think of would be...
The wingman thread in here (obviously).
Getting a job in a social environment, like a restaraunt.
(great for anything social... its always such a scene, and you work w. loads of different peeps)
Bullsh!ttin w. some dudes at the gym.
Friends parties, etc.

Just be more social yourself. Expand your network, make new friends. Surely you'll connect to some more Suaver cats, that are cool.

And flat out... if you saw some suave fvcker, and asked him whats up w. women, etc... he'd probably be flattered and give you minute of his day to share the art of Juan'in it.

But once again, Rocky's idea was a good situational hook. Cheers'
 
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