"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you meet and become friends with guys good with girls?

khash

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hey guys,

I have a few close friends who are not good with girls at all and I dont really have any friends who are good with women. They are pretty cool guys who are fun to hang out with but not the best idea to hang out with them if you want to pick up women. whenever I go out with them, I feel like they are hindering my process with the ladies and they are. I feel such that if I go alone I can do seduction much better, but I don't feel comfortable going out alone.

how do you meet guys who are natural with the laides and hang out with them? It is very hard to make friends these days!!

P.S Is anyone in this forum from Toronto?!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rocky_mtn

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When you are out at the bar/clubs, if you see a natural DJ at the bar, seperate youself from your friends, and go up and order a drink. As you are getting served, tell him that you saw a couple of HB9s (and if you say hotbabe9, he will know what you are talking bout) and its more that one man could handle and you need an experienced wingman. A natural DJ usually won't turn down a chance to meet up with some hotties, Just work it up, like "hey, those two are nice, I bet you're good with the women, well lets go get em" or "hey they are hot, I've been scoping them out, but two on one isn't fair, so catch my back/ be my wing"
Just try not to sound gay.
 

DarkLight

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Just try not to sound gay.
lol... I'd drop the "so catch my back" then.

Anyways... not all DJ's are hip to the lingo of the community. There are naturals out there, that have no idea bout the acronyms, etc.

Besides that... good enough idea.

Others I could think of would be...
The wingman thread in here (obviously).
Getting a job in a social environment, like a restaraunt.
(great for anything social... its always such a scene, and you work w. loads of different peeps)
Bullsh!ttin w. some dudes at the gym.
Friends parties, etc.

Just be more social yourself. Expand your network, make new friends. Surely you'll connect to some more Suaver cats, that are cool.

And flat out... if you saw some suave fvcker, and asked him whats up w. women, etc... he'd probably be flattered and give you minute of his day to share the art of Juan'in it.

But once again, Rocky's idea was a good situational hook. Cheers'
 
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