"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you make yourself look happy?

BlahUgh

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Sometimes people tell me that I look like I'm sulking, mad or sad when I'm out in public, but I'm usually not actually mad or sad about anything, its just the way my face looks sometimes. I have a feeling this is negatively impacting how others percieve me and react to me (especially girls). Just the other day this cashier asked me what was wrong, and said that I looked sad, which was a little bit of a shock to me since I wasn't thinking about anything sad at the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JesterX

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Yeah it sucks it happens to me aswell i think some peoples neutral faces just look sad, not on purpose its just the way you where born. You can try and keep a smile or slight grin on you face for the day, but when i try this my face gets sore after awhile and i go back to my neutral face. I dont think theres is anyway to overcome this other than trying to atleast speak in a good mood, like when your speaking to the cashier.
 

reyalp

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uh, "think of something that makes you happy" would be the obvious answer to that one. think of a time in your life where you felt on top of the world, 10ft tall and bulletproof.

also, the cashier may have been trying to start some smalltalk, could have been an IOI you just missed out on. never know.
 
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