"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you make yourself look happy?

BlahUgh

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Sometimes people tell me that I look like I'm sulking, mad or sad when I'm out in public, but I'm usually not actually mad or sad about anything, its just the way my face looks sometimes. I have a feeling this is negatively impacting how others percieve me and react to me (especially girls). Just the other day this cashier asked me what was wrong, and said that I looked sad, which was a little bit of a shock to me since I wasn't thinking about anything sad at the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JesterX

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Yeah it sucks it happens to me aswell i think some peoples neutral faces just look sad, not on purpose its just the way you where born. You can try and keep a smile or slight grin on you face for the day, but when i try this my face gets sore after awhile and i go back to my neutral face. I dont think theres is anyway to overcome this other than trying to atleast speak in a good mood, like when your speaking to the cashier.
 

reyalp

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uh, "think of something that makes you happy" would be the obvious answer to that one. think of a time in your life where you felt on top of the world, 10ft tall and bulletproof.

also, the cashier may have been trying to start some smalltalk, could have been an IOI you just missed out on. never know.
 
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