"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

How do you make of this?

Canibus27

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
101
Reaction score
0
Ok, the the history of this girls goes back to last year. We met in Spanish class, and we obviously had an attraction. She sat a seat up from me, and we talked alot. She knew I was ticklish, so she often grabbed my thighs and my sides. Sometimes she would move her hand is slow, and I would grab it, and we would like hold hands for like five seconds before we would mutually let go. Often she held my hand while she would be playing with my watch. But, we didn't get close till the end of the year, and the dumbass I am, I never asked for a phone number, or any communication. So, sadly I went the entire summer without talking or seeing her.

This year, we have a class together. We didn't really talk though because she was basically all the way in the back, and I was in the front, we had assigned seats. Well, the teacher just gave us new seats, and it just so happens she sits right next to me. So, we talked a little, nothing much. She really talked to this feminine guy, but I'm not to concerned. But, I was a little surprised to hear her talk about how she really likes this guy in her lunch. And that she was trying to get this other guy to come to her house on friday. That was kind of a confidence killer for me, since I was playing on flirting with her like crazy for the next couple days. Then, what catches me more off guard, I was doing my work, and she was talking to the feminine guy, and then out of no where, she asks for my phone number, so I give it to her, and she writes it on her hand. And at the end of class she started grabbed my sides to tickle me.

I am very confused right now, I'm nowhere near DJ status. What do you guys make of this, and what should my next move be? Hopefully, I'll have new updates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Michele l'Arcangelo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2005
Messages
1,460
Reaction score
22
dont make anything out of it. just go for it. get her number now. and tickle her back and playfully give her back rubs and all that touching ****.
 

supajsilver2

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2005
Messages
149
Reaction score
0
I guess your best bet at this point is to play this one as if the other guys don't exist...they aren't important if you go about it correctly...good luck and props on the #
 

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
Flirt and Tease

I think FGuy helped you out, when they were talking..and then she suddenly asked for your number....it's one of two things.

1. He's gay and using her to get to you, which in this case....you do what you will....but focus on...
2. She likes you, and opened YOU up first...so take the incentive and move!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Canibus27

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
101
Reaction score
0
Well he is not gay, he has a girlfriend. I just referred to him as the feminine guy because he is one of those guys who would rather hang out with the ladies (in a non-sexual way) then hang out with guys.

Thanks for the advice, I am going to flirt like crazy, and she can't drive, and nobody in her grade can, and I'm getting my license next week so I'll show her it and be like we should hang out sometime I can drive now.
 
Top