Literally just don't care too much,
I went on a date with a girl 2 weeks ago and have been in available since, not through game playing, I just genuinely have had a stupid amount on with work and had a weekend in London booked for the time off I did have. Anyway, I'd hinted at meeting up on Sunday and she text to re confirm tonight, which I ignored for a bit as I'm not totally certain I want to, anyway, a couple hours later I get a text,
" will you do me doggy style"
This girl is about a 6 probably, hence my reservations about taking it much further but she's crazy for me just because I don't care. On the reverse, I've messed up a few times by caring too much.
Obviously this is one example, and it's advise you've heard a thousand times before, but it definately is good advice.
Getting yourself to the point where you don't care is the key, the part I struggle with is that the hotter/better quality the girl, the more I seem to care, and the more I get dumped (although these days I usually sleep with them first at least
Hence my current period of limbo where the girls I don't like so much chase me, and the ones I do like, I chase.
Hopefully I'll find balance eventually.