"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do YOU maintain eye contact

dudewut

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Is it alright to hold eye contact while smirking? Or is that a no-no?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JohnnyStrabler

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Ok, what about this perspective (thinking outside the box here)

will it be ok to break eye contact from a girl to sub-communicate "Hmp, I am the catch and you are not worthy"? Or will breaking eye contact a weakness?

One thing I noticed from girls that I have no particular interest in is that if I look around while we are talking as opposed to me maintaining eye contact is that they will work harder to get my attention, they will send me tons of IOI, you know the hair thing, the touching of my arm, compliments etc.
 

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JohnnyStrabler said:
Ok, what about this perspective (thinking outside the box here)

will it be ok to break eye contact from a girl to sub-communicate "Hmp, I am the catch and you are not worthy"? Or will breaking eye contact a weakness?
Or wait, how bout this. Maybe you should break eye contact and then MAKE IT AGAIN! That will show her that you're mysterious in case she already knows the looking away trick...she would never expect it. So look away for .72 seconds and then look back.

Come on, man. Stop overthinking it.
 

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Darth said:
Or wait, how bout this. Maybe you should break eye contact and then MAKE IT AGAIN! That will show her that you're mysterious in case she already knows the looking away trick...she would never expect it. So look away for .72 seconds and then look back.

Come on, man. Stop overthinking it.

LMAO I was just saying, is looking away sub-communicating arrogance or weakness brah?
 

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BUMPing for interest

think about it fellas, as I can recall nobles NEVER look at their servants in the eye, so would that also apply to women?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PapiChulo

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Ease said:
What does that even mean? Respecting people and accepting people for what they are = eye contact?

Sounds like vague empty waffle to me.



Well that is just wrong. What on earth makes you say that? You look away from someone you distrust or are annoyed at?

You definitely stare them down and hold focus unless you are also intimidated. A salesman who you think is lying to you, you probably look even harder to detect it.

Eye contact is intimidation linked 99% of the time.


Only thing worst than vague empty waffle is false information.


You should look at it in context, e.i. cultural setting, business/private life, gender, etc.

It's %102 about intimidation when you are in jail. Between a woman and a men it is a whole other story. Does it mean that I should start intimidating women all over sudden?
 
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