"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you like to get girls to go places with you?

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How do you like to do it? It really depends on the situation I think. You don't always wanna give your number out and you don't always wanna just say "i'm going here, come hang out with me." Because what if it's something you would only do with two people? then that whole idea just sounds stupid. "lets hang out" is almost like saying "wanna go out."

Also a lotta things has to do with how you say things, but situations dont always let you convey that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah a statement, then move on to another question, assuming a "yes", works good.
 

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^ yeah true everything is feeling, etc. what about over the internet? just say "**** it" and do whatever?

Calypzo said:
"I was planning to go to (location) this weekend. You can come if you want."

Works for me
Yeah but there are things you wouldn't do by yourself. ("i was gonna go walk in the park. come with me")
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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