Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you like to get girls to go places with you?

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How do you like to do it? It really depends on the situation I think. You don't always wanna give your number out and you don't always wanna just say "i'm going here, come hang out with me." Because what if it's something you would only do with two people? then that whole idea just sounds stupid. "lets hang out" is almost like saying "wanna go out."

Also a lotta things has to do with how you say things, but situations dont always let you convey that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah a statement, then move on to another question, assuming a "yes", works good.
 

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^ yeah true everything is feeling, etc. what about over the internet? just say "**** it" and do whatever?

Calypzo said:
"I was planning to go to (location) this weekend. You can come if you want."

Works for me
Yeah but there are things you wouldn't do by yourself. ("i was gonna go walk in the park. come with me")
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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