Realize your worth. Your TRUE worth.
Realize that people around you are just like you. Sometimes sad, sometimes happy. With a lot of problems and issues , just like you.
You came here with a purpose.
Whether you realize this purpose and fulfill it is up to you. That is what you came here to do.
You probably arent even aware of your purpose right now. This is part of your Goal in life, to realign yourself to your HIGHER SELF and Discover what IS your Purpose here.
What IS your Mission?
What DO you have a Passion for in life?
What DOES make YOU Happy?
What DO you NEED in life to feel happiness?
What Do YOU want to GIVE BACK to the world?
Do you know your Values? Under difficult circumstances?
Do you know your Identity?
Will you stick to it , even in high pressure situations?
Do you have Integrity?
There are people who care for you.
Do you feel good behaving in a low character manner?
If it feels 'not right', why do you insist on doing it?
Arent you aware you are hurting yourself and another human being for your lack of values, and respect?
Do you NEED any more REASON to STOP THIS attitude an dbehavior>?
What more PROOF or MOTIVATION do you really NEED????
Perhaps you need to understand the VALUE of Self Disicipline.
Self Discipline is NOT a restraint", it is actually a method of FREEDOM.
Self Disicpline keeps you on the PAth to Enlightenment and Greatness.
Self Disicpline makes you be "the ROCK" in high pressure, you maintain your COMPOSURE and Masculine GRACE under ALL circumstances.
A man of high character and respect, feels a duty and obligation to reciprocate that affection, tenderness,and concern for them.
A man with self respect will find compassion for others. He sees that they care for him, and he sees the value in this. And understand the basic human ability to express comapssion and affection for another human being.
And eventually understanding that he does indeed have LOVE in his life, can then begin to express it to others.
There is NO LACK of Love in this life. Only LACK of cognizance of it in our lives...
What about your parents?
We learn about respect, self respect, duty, obligation, morals and values, and interaction in a mature way from our interactions with our Parents.
What about siblings?
we learn much about ourselves by observing them andhow they handle life.
Friends?
Girlfriends?
Do you not want to be a man of EXCELLENCE??
Dont you want to have HIGH CHARACTER?
Dont you want to know how to create and manage your Health, Wealth, and Well Being?
Dont you want to understand what it takes to become a Man , a refined man, a true Gentleman, one who is a Warrior in this Life?
Not afraid to face challenges, and does so with a reserve of emotional resources as well?
It is highly likely that you lash out at people because of the resentment you feel, The anger and bitterness you feel.
Your needs arent being met so you lash out at those around you..and sadly, at the closest ones to you.
This is cowardly.
To hurt those who care for you and are concerend for your welfare and well being, and are tied to you because of their decision to maintain their obligation to you is poor character and shows a lack of self respect.
You do know that NO ONE is OBLIGATED to be with you or take your sh*t and bad attitude, right?
Even your parents can decide if they want to leave you.
The obligation and duty that a person takes on to become close to you and be concerned for your welfare is a self decided one.
Yes, it is. It was their PERSONAL DECISION, not some magical OBLIGATION.
Parent, siblings, friends, girlfriends.
They CHOSE to be with you.
And youre going to treat them as lesser than you?
This is low character, poor judgement, and cowardly.
Part of being a Mature MASCULINE man , whom is decisive and in tune with his INNER POWER is the ability to act with his HIGHER SELF, and KNOWS HOW to SELF MANAGE his WELL BEING.
Part of being a Man is knowing HOW to manage your WELL BEING.
Burn that into your mind.
This means you RELEASE every one of their "responsibility" for making YOU happy.
Because they never had the responsibility in the first place.
In order to Love OneSELF one must make these deep realizations and integrate them into his beliefs and values.
IF you concentrate in achieveing your Mission.
Continue your daily Pursuit of High Character
Manage your Health, Wealth, and Well Being
Allow yourself to RECEIVE love, affection and even Guidance from others freely without judgement , demands, expectations, and in true appreciation for these gifts
RETURN this love and affection to others and use the deep realization of these values in order to maintain the disicipline to always act with your Higher self and demonstrate TRUE Masculine Grace..
then you will have a deeper appreciation for others and eventually yourself.
Another excellent response by Interceptor!