How do you land an attention wh0re?

[Santos]

After reading "TYPES OF WOMEN TO AVOID" in the Book of Shuma Gora along with some of your replies to my post 'Oneitis wants me back?" I've determined that it's possible that my ex-oneitis is an attention wh0re.

In "TYPES OF WOMEN TO AVOID", the author describes an attention wh0re as a woman who is constantly worried about you cheating on her, who will throw tantrums, and who wants the upper-hand in the relationship. This sounds a lot like my ex-oneitis. Her boyfriend of 6 years cheated on her a year ago and I wonder if that has left her insecure. She doesn't hate men because of it as far as I can see, but how can something like that NOT affect her negatively? I also noticed how she has a few AFCs she seems to keep around despite having no interest in them. (To boost her ego?).

So I was wondering if any of you have managed to fvck an attention wh0re, and if so - how you did it? Do you tease them with attention - give them attention and then take it away? This one is hot and she seems to be missing my attention, this is an opportunity I don't want to miss .

Thanks
Santos

 

[El brujo]

Originally posted by Santos
So I was wondering if any of you have managed to fvck an attention wh0re, and if so - how you did it?

Well, my previous girfriend could fall under the categorie of an attention *****. I think you'll have to date her for a long long time untill you can sleep with her. I meen it. But don't give to much hints. Just don't think about sex when your with her. Don't even talk about it. Don't pressure it. If that girl is like my ex, then she will notice the lack off sexual intrest from your side, and she will be the one who wants to have it. Hope this is any help. Good luck!

Greetz

 

[Digital Mastermind1]

you know what save yourself time and money on satisfying her attention h*** needs and just tell her straight out what you want and if she gives it to you cool if she doesnt then you know that she was just playing you for the attention.


i just called my ex back and i told her exactly what i want and tomorrow im going to her apartment to boink her . if she would of said no and that she wanted a relationship first i would of just told her that i dont want her like that anymore and next her.


LATEZ!!! F LOVE , LOVE TO F...

 

[El brujo]

offcourse you must make up your mind if you want her as a girl to fµck, or as a girl you want a longterm relationship with...

 

[violator]

Sometime ago I met this attention wh0re (HB9) at a club. At the time I didn't know any better and started acting AFC around her like calling her on weekends to ask her out, complimenting her, etc., and I even sent her a B-day card when I didn't know her that well. As you might expect she took me for granted and gave me a *****y attitude like if she was the princess of Monaco.

I was not totally AFC though and got fed up with her games and just stopped calling her altogether. Well, she started chasing me soon after that and leaving me messages trying to entice me to call her. When I did call her back I made it somewhat clear that I did not need her and hinted that I was seeing other women which only seemed to cause her IL to rise. Unlike before, I gave her little attention simply because I was seeing other women and most importantly I was more into my career which gave me less time. I became a rare commodity which made me more valuable. I eventually lost interest with her, so nothing ever happened between us.

With attention hoes, you simply need to treat them like any other girl and knock them from the pedestal. Social proof is especially effective with them. If they sense that you are seeing or are interested in other women, they will try to compete for your attention and depending on your skills as a DJ, you can play that off into getting them in the sack.

By and large, AW's are useless for LTR because they are too high maintenance and are not very faithful and like to have control in the relationship which means that they prey on AFC's. They usually have a cadre of AFC's as back up guys or just as ego boosters.

 

[Digital Mastermind1]

yep AWs are high maintanace and i would not recomend either to deal with these kinds of women but if you can boink her . do it.

what also works is dressing to impress to get their attention then use your DJ skills to reel them in .

personality is your best weapon in bringing them off their pedistal and to the real world . but you cant act AFC around them either man . and be desireless , to confuse them so they dont label you as another AFC schmuck trying to pick them up.


LATEZ !!! F LOVE , LOVE TO F...

 

[El brujo]

Negative sides of an AW:

-unfaithfull
-b1tchy
-they try to boss you around
-extremely jealous
-demand a lot of attention
-if you give them a lot of attention, they'll ***** you around even more
-they usually are very hot, so you'll have competition
-If you try to make time for them, they make even more time for THEMSELVES.

--> There are practically no pro-sides on a AW, except they are most of the time an 8,5. And even if you are a true DJ, they'll mess around with you as if you were a big time wuss.


Greetz

 

[PEACEDJ]

Most of the time when I come across an attention ***** I usually diss and make fun of them infront of people all the time. They get frustrated but ehh.. who cares there attention *****s oh and yeah I found out that the more you treat them like sh!t the better your chances of getting laid worked for me!

 

[El brujo]

Originally posted by PEACEDJ
Most of the time when I come across an attention ***** I usually diss and make fun of them infront of people all the time. They get frustrated but ehh.. who cares there attention *****s oh and yeah I found out that the more you treat them like sh!t the better your chances of getting laid worked for me!

Yeah you're right, but I've stopped treatin them like **** in public since I've first been on this site. Being a true dj means that you don't "get" people or other sh1t.

Greetz

 

[Starman]

making them feel like sh1t is a no no..making them feel insecure in a funny way YES making them feel Jealous w/competition YES Bragging about yourself and making yourself seem better than her YES

 

[tamales]

I haven't read the posts only your title.. But I say give her some attention at first and then pull away. This will drive her nuts and if she is interested.. Trust me, she'll find away of contacting you.. Just play it cool Give them a lot at first and then pull back and them come to you... JMO! But some say I am an attention ***** myself so whatta I know......I don't see it that way..lol

Good luck!

 

[Ronin I]

By and large, AW's are useless for LTR because they are too high maintenance and are not very faithful and like to have control in the relationship which means that they prey on AFC's. They usually have a cadre of AFC's as back up guys or just as ego boosters.

Absofvckinglutely right!

Well, my previous girfriend could fall under the categorie of an attention *****. I think you'll have to date her for a long long time untill you can sleep with her. I meen it. But don't give to much hints. Just don't think about sex when your with her. Don't even talk about it. Don't pressure it. If that girl is like my ex, then she will notice the lack off sexual intrest from your side, and she will be the one who wants to have it. Hope this is any help. Good luck!

Dude, what are you smokin? Fvck that. An attention wh0re isn't worth all that effort! Screw that. Try to bang her the first or second time you hang out with her - if she doesn't gor for it then pull waaaaayyyyyy back on any interest you show her. She'll either come chasing after you craving your attention even more or she'll find some AFC to latch on to and suck out his very will to live. Either way, once you identisy a bonafide attention wh0re you should realize that she's only good for one thing - fvcking. So, if she isn't giving you that don;t even bother with her period.

making them feel like sh1t is a no no..making them feel insecure in a funny way YES making them feel Jealous w/competition YES Bragging about yourself and making yourself seem better than her YES

Yes. Personally I don't believe in neg-hitting attention wh0res per say. Usually they are so EXTREMELY insecure (which is why they constantly crave attention in the first place - to feed their fragile ego) that making them feel like sh!t works against you. These kinds of girls are where AFCs make their living. They absolutley love (need) to have their ass kissed all the time. The problem is they get tired of the same old AFC kissing their ass and will cheat in a heartbeat. They cycle through superficial relationship through superficial relationship where some AFC bends over backward to try and make her happy (pointless) and winds up getting the heave-ho for his efforts OR some DJ see's right through her bullsh!t and gets rid of her first.

The WARNING signs :

-unfaithfull
YUP!
-b1tchy
YUP!
-they try to boss you around
YUP!
-extremely jealous
YUP!
-demand a lot of attention
YUP! (obviously)
-if you give them a lot of attention, they'll ***** you around even more
this is where you're damned if you do damned if you don't - if you give them a lot of attention they seek to gain more and moe control of the relationship and have total disregard for youu and your feelings. If you don't give them a lot of attention they'll feverishly search for it somewhere else.
-they usually are very hot, so you'll have competition
not sure I agree with this one - in my experience AW's can range from 5's - 10's - but usually they are at least fairly good looking.
-If you try to make time for them, they make even more time for THEMSELVES.
Very true.


There are practically no pro-sides on a AW, except they are most of the time an 8,5. And even if you are a true DJ, they'll mess around with you as if you were a big time wuss.

I agree that there are almost no pro-sides to an AW (except that sometimes you can get them in bed very quickly - and have regular sex for a couple weeks). But if you're a true DJ they won't mess around with you because you will not tolerate their bullsh!t in the first place.

Another smple way to identify an attention wh0re is if they have a lot/almost all guy friends. Many, many times she will have dated many of these guys in the past. Red Flag!

 

[tamales]

I am sorry, but if you play it right AW for a true DJ willl be putty in your hands.,. I mean on some level aren;t all women AW.. Maybe not but there are true AW and those that can be worn down.. I am proof of that.. but maybe you are right. Run!

 

[tamales]

And I will also give my 2 cents.. don't have to listen.. but...all women are either into you are they aren't and if a woman digs you... you hold the cards.. no matter. Trust me on this. I don't care if they are the biggest friggen AW on the planet.. so if you already have some sort of connection. Haven't read all the posts. I should I know but they too will fall. Like cards. All women are basically somewhat the same. I mean sure you can define them by categories but we are so damn fickle aren't we....

I think you all have really misread the AW.. For those of you burned.. my opinion although not much appreciated on here is that well, she didn't dig you all that much to begin with. Before any man makes any move you gotta listen to your gut on this one and make one shot and move on.. JMO..

 

[Lone_raider]

Originally posted by tamales
And I will also give my 2 cents.. don't have to listen.. but...all women are either into you are they aren't and if a woman digs you... you hold the cards.. no matter. Trust me on this. I don't care if they are the biggest friggen AW on the planet.. so if you already have some sort of connection. Haven't read all the posts. I should I know but they too will fall. Like cards. All women are basically somewhat the same. I mean sure you can define them by categories but we are so damn fickle aren't we....

I think you all have really misread the AW.. For those of you burned.. my opinion although not much appreciated on here is that well, she didn't dig you all that much to begin with. Before any man makes any move you gotta listen to your gut on this one and make one shot and move on.. JMO..

Tamales, this was very valuable to me coming from a woman who claims to be somewhat of an attention *****! I've been having a situation with an HB9, and it almost seems like she is an attention ***** now that I think about it. Well she is to some degree anyway, not the worst I've ever seen. The thing is, she was more attracted to me originally, and we do have some kind of connection/concern for each other. Despite all the crap I've had with her in the last week, she was always truly concerned about my well being, such as driving me to my car in a rain storm because I didn't have an umbrella.

Anyway she flaked on me big time this weekend, and I have decided to cut all contact with her. So if your correct, then because there was some kind of connection here, and she certainly liked me at one time, she will probably cave in from my lack of attention and call or contact me in some way? It will certainly be interesting to see how this plays out!

Thanks for the post tamales, it was certainly valuable!

 

[tamales]

Ok great... but keep in mind I am no expert but just one AW okay semi attention *****'s opinion. So if it doesn't work then just don't be mad but honestly, I am calling them like I HONESTLY SEE them no hidden agenda.. I think she will indeed come around. May take a week or so and if she doesn't, Not worth it. If a woman is into you see is into you and if you are the man she is most into at any given time I can guarentee you no matter how much of an AW she might seem to be, claim to see or you think she might be.. she will call... Now I can't promise someone else might not come along in the meantime but then again, if they do who needs her. At least you weren't some lame AFC going after her.. JMO. A lot of men ? my motives on here. First of I have calmed down somewhat but had to work today a new job all day until 8 and simply friggen beat so thought why not? I actually have learned a lot on here and it's not about getting back at men. It's about learning more about the game of love, sex or whatever you call it...Good luck and if she does call please let me know.. Just curious

Good luck...

 

[Starman]

I dealt with an AW a few times..once I stopped calling, emailing, paying her attention...she would take a while to play the "He'll miss me" game... "Any day now, he'll call!" "ummm..maybe he forgot my #?"

then eventually she calls..I dont pick up..dont call her back..she waits a while longer..then calls again..gets frustrated and says

"Why the fvck arent you retruning my calls???"

bahahahah beautiful is that moment

 

[tamales]

Oh yeah Long raider.. I would have to know more about your situation to really say. I just reread your post. But yeah, no contact at all. See what she does and just move on in the meantime. Lots and lots and lots and lots of other women dying for your attention. Actually, do you think there are male attention *****s.. isn't that what a dj is afterall JK but something to consider and hell I don't blame ya... Again, good luck.

I can tell you if she was indeed into you and she has no other really high IL she will try again. Not sure what your situation was. Feel free to PM me. I am a women and take my advice with a grain of salt or as some men here say, the whole shaker but no matter I do think I have been forthright and I will do my best.

Not for the attention but I find the dynamics of men and women sort of interesting. Plus, my feet are killing me. Had my first day at work at a new part time job. I have a company but things are tought right now. Sigh.

Unfortunately, most men I work with at my new job are faires.. They need weights to hold them down. But keeping my options open. LOL!

Let me know what happens.

Just one woman on the planet. You don't have to read this post. If you don't like it.. move on.. Simple! No hidden agenda. Honest.

 

[Starman]

heh I actually like Tamales contributions here..she is like that she-Ape in Planet of the Apes..who turned toward her own kind..and was helping the humans(no offense tamales)

she provides a really insightful view into the female mind..without getting offended and saying "ohh you guys are stoopid! you are only saying this because you have been burned!"

 

[Lone_raider]

Alright tamale, I'll PM you with my situation, it might be a two part PM as it's a long story!!!