"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko said:
I live in a smaller town, not as small as 500, but it's certainly no Boston or NYC. So maybe that does affect the ratio of hot women. Not sure why exactly - unless it's that all the hot women take off for the big city for a more exciting lifestyle. The other thing I might observe is it seems like women in smaller towns are more likely to let themselves go weight-wise. Guys too, for that matter. Again, not sure why.

What is it about Eastern Europe that changes your view on hot women? Is it mainly because there are less obese people there? Or are you talking about attitudes?
I noticed this with small towns too- the women let themselves go a lot. They look horrible. You can walk around for a long period of time and see one good looking girl. It certainly makes you believe that the pickings are slim.

Eastern Europe has had its share of tough times, so most folks aren't at the point where they can eat themselves into oblivion. Its impossible to envision if having lived only in the states, but the fewer obese people you observe over there really does make a difference. Why settle down for a cow? The personalities are different too , but I only met a handful which is hardly representative of their culture. I did manage to get ones # whom did not speak a lick of english.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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