Although I am still in high school I thought I'd ask the older people a question. So question, I still have my share of problems with girls and anytime I ask my dad what my problem is or for advice because I am not pulling girls, he'll say confidence, and he says that every time. I feel that I am confident...much more than I have ever been in my life. But thats all he manages to say. I feel like he is keeping something from me sometimes and just doesn't want to tell me the truth. But I'm not going to rule out what he is saying. So how do you truly know when you are confident.?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do you know when you have confidence?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
For a man, confidence is something that is almost never can be faked. It is something that can never be put into words, only body language. He doesn't know either. But; A man's confidence is defined by 1) his career and how much money he makes 2) his genes and good looks 3) his positive outlook on life 4) if he doesn't have the first two, he needs the third, so he can one day, attain or at least pursue the first two, which leads to 5) ambition, a huge turn on for female species. 6) happiness. Hard to be happy if you are broke, ugly, negative, unambitious.
You will get there. Just keep working hard.
You will get there. Just keep working hard.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
You can feel it in you when your confident. You will reek of confidence. Its a great feeling.
Took me 2-3 years of this site to get there so be patient
Took me 2-3 years of this site to get there so be patient
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Money and looks?
How about how valuable a man is to society? Or how about first-hand experience?
I have noticed that people who have good social skills, or generally someone who is physically bigger, tends to be more confident.
How about how valuable a man is to society? Or how about first-hand experience?
I have noticed that people who have good social skills, or generally someone who is physically bigger, tends to be more confident.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You have confidence when you play by your rules, when you don't you go by somebody else's.