"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how do you know when girls want you to approach, i get turned down all the time

DarkShade

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I'm probably about to go on some Zoloft to deal with other aspects of my life, I think Orly and rapidfire may benefit from a sort of antidepressant, check with your doctor.

Another might be a new hobby. Collect something (I collect shot glasses, something that's both useful and nice to look at, as opposed to something like stamps), sample some new music (not the standard garbage you hear on the radio, PM me for some tips) or just find something to occupy your time to stave away the urges you get when you sit at home and do nothing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

tsmith2334

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DarkShade said:
I'm probably about to go on some Zoloft to deal with other aspects of my life, I think Orly and rapidfire may benefit from a sort of antidepressant, check with your doctor.
Be careful. I'm talking from personal experience. It's a quick fix at best. I can definitively say that the negatives ultimately far outweigh the positives.
 

DarkShade

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I'll follow my doctor's advice, I'm not into taking drugs to begin with, I don't like crutches. It's a last resort. I've got too much going for me not to try everything at my disposal at this time of my life.
 

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Drugs like those mentioned have the potential for side effects that I'd rather not deal with.

Besides, I'm not depressed. I like myself, who I am, my life, and where I'm headed - save for my circumstances with women.
 
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