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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you know shes jealous?

BongDuy

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They say one way of knowing whether you like someone a lot is whether or not you get jealous when they do certain things. lately, ive been trying to play the jealousy card with some girls, and im wondering, what are some sure signs of them being jealous?

A girl even told me straight up in a playful " stop flirting with my friends, you're making me jealous"

Is this a sign?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cherokee

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in my experiences, girls will ask a lot of questions about what you've been up to, and if you mention chilling with other chicks (who aren't your friends) and if she asks more questions about the girls, that is a sign of jealousy.
A by product of jealousy in women leads them to being clingy.
 

londonzen

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agree the chick at my work place who was a temp went away for 3 weeks and came back as permanent staff
while talking she comes out with "so wat you been up to for the last 3 weeks? have you been behaving?"
with a false uneasy smile like youd better have.

to which i replied with a ****y smile "me always"

she gave a questioning look before smiling and changing the subject
 

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Even though women are the masters of the emotional/covert communication realm, jealousy is the emotion they don't know how to handle very well. It proves to be an invaluable tool in your jouney...
 

DJ Miquelo

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yeah they cant seem to handle themselves when they get jealous - which is always fun to watch!

What that girl said to you may indicate she is a bit jealous but most likely its nothing worth noting really cos in my experience when they are REALLY jealous they wont say 'im jealous' :p

Things they do when jealous include:
Asking you about what you've been doing and who you've been chillin with (as Cherokee mentioned)

Asking what you think of certain other girls (often ones they are friends with)

One time a girl just came out with an angry comment along the lines of me having sex with one of her friends! She was suspicious and the like and her jealously got her angry haha

Another thing ive seen is when a girl tries to hold your attention when you're with other girls cos she is jealous of other girls getting your attention

Im sure there are others but those are the ones ive witnessed!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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