"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you know shes jealous?

BongDuy

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They say one way of knowing whether you like someone a lot is whether or not you get jealous when they do certain things. lately, ive been trying to play the jealousy card with some girls, and im wondering, what are some sure signs of them being jealous?

A girl even told me straight up in a playful " stop flirting with my friends, you're making me jealous"

Is this a sign?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cherokee

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in my experiences, girls will ask a lot of questions about what you've been up to, and if you mention chilling with other chicks (who aren't your friends) and if she asks more questions about the girls, that is a sign of jealousy.
A by product of jealousy in women leads them to being clingy.
 

londonzen

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agree the chick at my work place who was a temp went away for 3 weeks and came back as permanent staff
while talking she comes out with "so wat you been up to for the last 3 weeks? have you been behaving?"
with a false uneasy smile like youd better have.

to which i replied with a ****y smile "me always"

she gave a questioning look before smiling and changing the subject
 

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Even though women are the masters of the emotional/covert communication realm, jealousy is the emotion they don't know how to handle very well. It proves to be an invaluable tool in your jouney...
 

DJ Miquelo

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yeah they cant seem to handle themselves when they get jealous - which is always fun to watch!

What that girl said to you may indicate she is a bit jealous but most likely its nothing worth noting really cos in my experience when they are REALLY jealous they wont say 'im jealous' :p

Things they do when jealous include:
Asking you about what you've been doing and who you've been chillin with (as Cherokee mentioned)

Asking what you think of certain other girls (often ones they are friends with)

One time a girl just came out with an angry comment along the lines of me having sex with one of her friends! She was suspicious and the like and her jealously got her angry haha

Another thing ive seen is when a girl tries to hold your attention when you're with other girls cos she is jealous of other girls getting your attention

Im sure there are others but those are the ones ive witnessed!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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