"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you know if a woman is using you to fill an emotional void?

Yulandop

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What are the signs that a woman is trying to use you to fill an emotional void in their life?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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betheman

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Pretty much all of them have an emotional void at any given time
 

Juan Don

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yup. and that's the time they are most vulnerable and have low self esteem. they fall for you because you listen to them. as soon as they gain their self esteem back they just want to be friends or have nothing to do with you and direct their attention elsewhere.
 

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Juan Don said:
as soon as they gain their self esteem back they just want to be friends or have nothing to do with you and direct their attention elsewhere.

concur
 

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very few women ever get their self esteem back, slef esteem is exactly that! self esteem, it has to come from within, most women have this void (some have chasms) that is only ever filled when a man is in her life, women of course will deny this but Im not going to argue the point.
as for the signs? bot sure there are any hard fast signs just accept that is part of why she is with you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She constantly reminds you of her daddy issues. I would know that one well by now.
 

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If she keeps discussing problems with you, doesn't contact you unless it's to discuss her problems and the clincher is if she talks about other men. If that's the case, GTFO, fast.
 
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