"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you know if a woman is using you to fill an emotional void?

Yulandop

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What are the signs that a woman is trying to use you to fill an emotional void in their life?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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betheman

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Pretty much all of them have an emotional void at any given time
 

Juan Don

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yup. and that's the time they are most vulnerable and have low self esteem. they fall for you because you listen to them. as soon as they gain their self esteem back they just want to be friends or have nothing to do with you and direct their attention elsewhere.
 

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Juan Don said:
as soon as they gain their self esteem back they just want to be friends or have nothing to do with you and direct their attention elsewhere.

concur
 

betheman

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very few women ever get their self esteem back, slef esteem is exactly that! self esteem, it has to come from within, most women have this void (some have chasms) that is only ever filled when a man is in her life, women of course will deny this but Im not going to argue the point.
as for the signs? bot sure there are any hard fast signs just accept that is part of why she is with you
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She constantly reminds you of her daddy issues. I would know that one well by now.
 

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If she keeps discussing problems with you, doesn't contact you unless it's to discuss her problems and the clincher is if she talks about other men. If that's the case, GTFO, fast.
 
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