How do you know if a woman is really interested in a man?

[tesla8520]

How do you know if a woman is really interested in a man she's with? Can you tell from the outside?

Some women are truly skilled manipulators who can create a completely genuine narrative,, but they can do that even when their faking it.

Also, from my findings and experience, once a women do kids with a man, they'll do anything in their power in order to keep him..

 

[Gamisch]

You mean from the outside looking at it? Or on a personal level?

On a personal level; you will have to experience what's it like to deal with a woman who will literally be heartbroken you'd leave her. This will put your previous struggle- relationships into a different perspective and simultaneously raise your bar.

If all you ever know is lukewarm interest, you will end up gettinplayed over r and over again ( type of man who will get cheated on again and again, whilst doubling Down trying to control women by marriage, cohabitation, spending money ect)
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Other than that; NEVER assume ANYTHING! There is no way to tell whether a woman is sincerely happy or not with a man if you don't know her personally. All it does is it feeds into your pipedream

 

[Doctor Europeo]

How do you know if a woman is really interested in a man she's with?

She initiates sex more or less as much as he does.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

How do you know if a woman is really interested in a man she's with?

She doesn't bang other dudes.

She shows up on time.

She doesn't flake.

She tries her best to help carry the conversation.

She initiates affection.

She doesn't stare at her phone when you're having dinner, she stares at you. (this is probably the easiest way to tell from the outside looking in)

 

[intricate design]

If she heard good things about you from other women, chances are she will also think good of you

if she tells other women she’s wild about you, thats another indicator

if she tells her family she likes you, that is a heavy indication

if people at her work are told about you, there’s another one

I think sources of communication like those holds the most weight, socially speaking

otherwise, woman are tough to read - even if you‘re skilled at reading body language and if you understand how they tend to operate, it’s like they never fail to surprise men.

men are naturally a few steps behind whatever is actually going on with a woman

 

[BaronOfHair]

She reciprocates, when he approaches, as opposed to running in the opposite direction, hurling her Pink Drink into his face, Breaking out the pepper spray, etc etc.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Agree with Scara and TO and Baron. A woman who likes you says "yes" to you. She accomodates you in big and small ways. If she is saying "yes" she is interested. Its really that simple.

 

[OngBak]

Most of the time, look at her actions and not what she says.
But this isnt a guarentee at all, sometimes they fake interest just to get attention and feel good or reject you out of fun

 

[tesla8520]

whilst doubling Down trying to control women by marriage, cohabitation, spending money ect

Did you meant that some men actually double down their effort? (the nice guy thing?)
Well.. I actually saw two of those relationship. The man actually doubled down and their relationship appear stronger now.
Before, it was like you mention here

lukewarm interest, you will end up gettinplayed

if you don't know her personally

I also think this cannot be true.. still. Just because women have that facade they really won't open up with you on that, or if they'll do, it's just a fake thing. It's up to you to believe to what they're saying..
What is your experience? Do you truly believe to their words, but then see them acting differently?

(For example a woman might just say he's so lazy or not fit, or that doesn't fk her well, but in reality she keep supporting him, she still have s3x with him and initiate for the major part..)

 

[tesla8520]

She initiates sex more or less as much as he does.

I think this is not a reasonable or always true.
Since she could lovebomb or just be hypersexual

She doesn't stare at her phone when you're having dinner, she stares at you.

I can actually say I like this one since it's what I've experienced.
She actually won't be distracted when her only distraction is you.

Advice from the old lady:

Agree with Scara and TO and Baron. A woman who likes you says "yes" to you. She accomodates you in big and small ways. If she is saying "yes" she is interested. Its really that simple.

Have you ever dealt with shy women?
You might interpeted a "no" but in reality that is a "yes". She just might be shy.

they fake interest just to get attention and feel good or reject you out of fun

Yes! I've always asked as men if we could actually recognize the difference about this

 

[Gamisch]

Did you meant that some men actually double down their effort? (the nice guy thing?)
Well.. I actually saw two of those relationship. The man actually doubled down and their relationship appear stronger now.
Before, it was like you mention here



I also think this cannot be true.. still. Just because women have that facade they really won't open up with you on that, or if they'll do, it's just a fake thing. It's up to you to believe to what they're saying..
What is your experience? Do you truly believe to their words, but then see them acting differently?

(For example a woman might just say he's so lazy or not fit, or that doesn't fk her well, but in reality she keep supporting him, she still have s3x with him and initiate for the major part..)

Ofcourse life is dynamic and things can swing the other way around, good point!

I didn't know if you meant women in general or a specific woman you're dealing with.

Personally I've experienced women that would be heartbroken if I left ,and that set the bar.I've also dealt with womem that were wishy-washy, and that basically meant that I was the one who wanted the relationship more than they did...and that gives BAD results.

Other than that, it wasn't clear whether you meant a couple randomly passing by for example. In that case you can never tell for sure! One thing I do know is that overtime a woman can become your worst enemy..if a woman talks basically about a man but stays , the rot is already set in motion and its a matter of time before it falls apart.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

I think this is not a reasonable or always true.
Since she could lovebomb or just be hypersexual

It is possible that both you and I are speaking from experience. The thing is: "Cada quien habla como le fue en la feria"

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

How do you know if a woman is really interested in a man she's with? Can you tell from the outside?

Some women are truly skilled manipulators who can create a completely genuine narrative,, but they can do that even when their faking it.

Also, from my findings and experience, once a women do kids with a man, they'll do anything in their power in order to keep him..

There are usually obvious signs, mostly with body languag, eg she's quiet and respectful with that sort of giddy, free spirited sort of feminine energy around her guy, and where the guy i is not walking on egg shells or subdued in any way but has the calm and masculine presence to him. Another obvious tell is the kind of chemistry they have and to what extent they engage in any sort of PDA, however minor it might be - if she's holding his arm for instance that's a pretty clear indicator.

I will say though, it's not always so obvious. That's why I think it's a mistake for us to judge relationships we see in the wild, because you never really know what is going on behind closed doors. In other words, if it appears kind of normal/neutral, it's ambiguous to know how she really feels about him, you have to kind of observe them for a long time or in an intimate setting to get an idea.

If you're asking this question for determining how you can determine how interested she is, this is a lot easier. The old adage is if you have to ask, the question is probably no. So if she consistently gives you mixed signals or is disrespectful, that means she's probably not really attracted to you and may already be looking to get out. However women will stay with a man even if she doesn't respect him, because they like having the power and control in a relationship.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Pretty soon it's going to be:

"This girl came over, unzipped my pants and started sucking my d!ck. How do I know if she's really interested??"

 

[jhonny9546]

.if a woman talks basically about a man but stays , the rot is already set in motion and its a matter of time before it falls apart.

Well, actually, they're 100% Italian LTR couples.
You even hear them joke about it during dinners, or when people get together.
There's always a joke about their man, about how lazy he is, how clumsy he is, how he doesn't do this, how he doesn't do that, etc.

They usually have no problem saying it "publicly" in front of everyone during these scenes, events, or parties.

 

[tesla8520]

There are usually obvious signs, mostly with body languag, eg she's quiet and respectful with that sort of giddy, free spirited sort of feminine energy around her guy, and where the guy i is not walking on egg shells or subdued in any way but has the calm and masculine presence to him. Another obvious tell is the kind of chemistry they have and to what extent they engage in any sort of PDA, however minor it might be - if she's holding his arm for instance that's a pretty clear indicator.

Dude this is actually very important!
This is something I can notice too, from my low exp.

Usually this is also soemthing you see in a fresh couple, but later, the woman will start to "lose the mask" and actually behave in a different way.
And He start to walk on eggshells.
Usually after kids or marriage.

PDA

What do you mean with this?

However women will stay with a man even if she doesn't respect him, because they like having the power and control in a relationship.

Ok.. how can really women go about that in their life?
I mean, if I cheat on my partner, I would never be able to sleep with her anymore.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

What do you mean with this?

PDA = public display of affection. so holding his arm or just touching him a lot. although apparently from what i hear, women do this sort of thing with friendzoned guys too, so i'm not sure if its a super reliable indicator

Ok.. how can really women go about that in their life?
I mean, if I cheat on my partner, I would never be able to sleep with her anymore.

I think so. Biggest mistake both genders make is projecting how they would feel onto the other person. We have different MOs. For women I think feminism has conditioned them to the extent that the feel being "submissive" is a fate worse than death, so a lot of them want total control over a guy even if they don't respect him. They are the types who are probably sleeping with Chad or Tyrone on the side.