"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do you initiate eye contact?

DamHE

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title says it all.. usually i cant initiate eye contact because they just dont look at me..

help?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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alansp

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Well, first of all if she doesn't look at you, it's because she doesn't see nothing diferent on you, nothing interesting. For her you are anyone, any other guy. She will not starts looking you sudently. You have to give her a reason.
You could, to start, talk (or say some comentary) to her and fix the look during and after the talk end. You have to change first your attitudes, she has to be pleasure and admiration on looking you. Try also, i don't know if you are on a school, for example a moment that you are the center attention of the class or the group, like when you are talking and the others are looking at you or i don't know when the teacher call you; then take advantage that everybody is looking at you and probably her, so look at her. Then she will starting look at you more times than before.
Remember smile (not much, this smile have to show that anyway in her look "touch" you) you could also look down and close the eyes when cut the look (observe the girls, they do this oft).
 

eminence

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you look at them...you keep looking at them, and if they don't look back they aren't interested and you move on....not complicated. just do it.
 

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Yeah Look at Them. If they look, keep looking. Hold your contact longer than them. If they smile/wave/signal go up and say "hi". if not, keep walking.
 

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I never ever have a problem with this... your probably not attractive enough. Work a bit on your looks, body and style.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Zerotwoonenine

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just keep looking, if they dont make eye contact cause they are looking somewhere else, go past and look for future oppertunities.
 
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