how do you handle rejection infront of girl

[bluemanson]

Ok guys i have 2 girls that i wana ask out for next week during the week

now i know if i ask the 1 and she says no or whatever, then i can always phone the other

now my question is, what if i phone girl 1 and she says no, actually i plan on going to her house and asking her so, how do i handle the situation or say that does make me look like a wuss,

but when i get to the car il phone girl 2.

Any suggestions guys

Thanks

 

[dee-dub]

Well personally I would invite the girl to do something I already planned on doing, like going to a party or going to the mall to look at shirts or whatever, then just call them and ask if she would like to acompany you to a party or what not, that way she knows you are doing something with or without her. Rather than going up to her and saying "Hey we should go to a movie together"(She would assume that you going to the movie depends on her, therefor it puts her in control) You want ALL the control. I hope that sorta helps :\

 

[bluemanson]

Thanks and Well i was planning on that but as i spoke to girl 1 she says she cant plan what she does in the evenings.

but i just wana know what do you say if she says no or not tonight or whatever reason she gives,

 

[Ziniath]

"ok, cool. catch you later." if you're really into her, then try another time. if she rejects again, take the hint and leave it alone.

I don't know that this has to be hard dude.
I think you're making this more challenging than it needs to be.

 

[Taste]

Ziniath hit it on the head. It's no big sweat, but you're making it become one. Sometimes girls just have plans and have things to do. Sometimes girls are spontanious that they really can't plan their night because they live life on unpredictability. It doesn't mean it's always a rejection.

Quit worrying if you're coming across as a wuss. That's the thought you are putting out, you are going to convey that insecurity. Every girl has the ability to give you an amazing experience. Yes even the flaky girls, so if these girls don't answer/flake/reject you atleast you'll learn how to become emotionally stronger by going through it.

Keep going ahead, meet more women and just enjoy the process of it all.