thewarrior
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Do you have a really good job to afford dating more than one chick? Maybe all your dates consist of cooking a meal at home and then *******. So how do you swing it?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How do you handle dating multiple women (money-wise)?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
thewarrior said:
There came a point where I had 3 plates and I shelled out over a $120 one week, in March I had several dates/plates and spend over $250 dating. I was going broke, I realized I had to 1. Cut some plates off 2. Come up with some creative ideas. 3. keep doing what I was doing
I decided to do a combo of 1 & 2. Now that it's summer you can take a chick out to the park, a concert outside (typically free)s, go out to the lake something simple. a lot of chicks really apperciate something different from the cliche dinner and a movie, on top of that you save $$$
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
You can always do things that dont need money. Go to a park, play a sport, hiking, bike riding... Which, these are all ACTION DATES and you want action dates. The only thing you really waste is your gas doing that.
I dont know what you waste your money doing with ho's...
I dont know what you waste your money doing with ho's...
How do you handle dating multiple women
Financially speaking thats a very good question. And I've also read about action dates in "The System" by Doc Love. Suppossedly it's a very effective way to tell apart the gold diggers, and women who don't like you from those that are genuinely interested in you. Question is though what are really good action dates to go on which are very fun for both parties and remaining cost effective?
You get them to spend money on you. It's call macking. It's a step beyond being a "dj"
I've done that to a much smaller degree. I don't really count it because I just wasn't attracted to the women buying me drinks and dinner. I guess with the right mind set I could be a mack too but I'm too caught up in asking myself what it is exactly that I might have done in order to get these women all over me in that manner.
Financially speaking thats a very good question. And I've also read about action dates in "The System" by Doc Love. Suppossedly it's a very effective way to tell apart the gold diggers, and women who don't like you from those that are genuinely interested in you. Question is though what are really good action dates to go on which are very fun for both parties and remaining cost effective?
You get them to spend money on you. It's call macking. It's a step beyond being a "dj"
I've done that to a much smaller degree. I don't really count it because I just wasn't attracted to the women buying me drinks and dinner. I guess with the right mind set I could be a mack too but I'm too caught up in asking myself what it is exactly that I might have done in order to get these women all over me in that manner.
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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
i am attracted to extremely feminine looking women (the type who rarely wear jeans and stay as pretty as possible)
these women typically have money and date guys with money...
im below middle class and have so many bills from a stupid youth that i cannot go out at all sometimes for months (i always have money tucked away for summer though).
i do mostly everything at my house. and keep them from getting ored by only bringing them aroiund 4-5 times a month.
when we do go out - we split tabs or they pay.
and i promise you that this is mostly possible due to the quality of sex i give them.... sex marathons are my action date =)
these women typically have money and date guys with money...
im below middle class and have so many bills from a stupid youth that i cannot go out at all sometimes for months (i always have money tucked away for summer though).
i do mostly everything at my house. and keep them from getting ored by only bringing them aroiund 4-5 times a month.
when we do go out - we split tabs or they pay.
and i promise you that this is mostly possible due to the quality of sex i give them.... sex marathons are my action date =)
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Obviously, if you're one of those guys who was born with a silver spoon in his mouth, this isn't a problem.
Even these guys shop at Wal-Mart.
Save Money, Live Better.
Cook better too! Get the idea?
Even these guys shop at Wal-Mart.
Save Money, Live Better.
Cook better too! Get the idea?