thewarrior
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 10, 2009
- Messages
- 177
- Reaction score
- 2
Do you have a really good job to afford dating more than one chick? Maybe all your dates consist of cooking a meal at home and then *******. So how do you swing it?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do you handle dating multiple women (money-wise)?
- Thread starter thewarrior
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
thewarrior said:
There came a point where I had 3 plates and I shelled out over a $120 one week, in March I had several dates/plates and spend over $250 dating. I was going broke, I realized I had to 1. Cut some plates off 2. Come up with some creative ideas. 3. keep doing what I was doing
I decided to do a combo of 1 & 2. Now that it's summer you can take a chick out to the park, a concert outside (typically free)s, go out to the lake something simple. a lot of chicks really apperciate something different from the cliche dinner and a movie, on top of that you save $$$
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
You can always do things that dont need money. Go to a park, play a sport, hiking, bike riding... Which, these are all ACTION DATES and you want action dates. The only thing you really waste is your gas doing that.
I dont know what you waste your money doing with ho's...
I dont know what you waste your money doing with ho's...
How do you handle dating multiple women
Financially speaking thats a very good question. And I've also read about action dates in "The System" by Doc Love. Suppossedly it's a very effective way to tell apart the gold diggers, and women who don't like you from those that are genuinely interested in you. Question is though what are really good action dates to go on which are very fun for both parties and remaining cost effective?
You get them to spend money on you. It's call macking. It's a step beyond being a "dj"
I've done that to a much smaller degree. I don't really count it because I just wasn't attracted to the women buying me drinks and dinner. I guess with the right mind set I could be a mack too but I'm too caught up in asking myself what it is exactly that I might have done in order to get these women all over me in that manner.
Financially speaking thats a very good question. And I've also read about action dates in "The System" by Doc Love. Suppossedly it's a very effective way to tell apart the gold diggers, and women who don't like you from those that are genuinely interested in you. Question is though what are really good action dates to go on which are very fun for both parties and remaining cost effective?
You get them to spend money on you. It's call macking. It's a step beyond being a "dj"
I've done that to a much smaller degree. I don't really count it because I just wasn't attracted to the women buying me drinks and dinner. I guess with the right mind set I could be a mack too but I'm too caught up in asking myself what it is exactly that I might have done in order to get these women all over me in that manner.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
i am attracted to extremely feminine looking women (the type who rarely wear jeans and stay as pretty as possible)
these women typically have money and date guys with money...
im below middle class and have so many bills from a stupid youth that i cannot go out at all sometimes for months (i always have money tucked away for summer though).
i do mostly everything at my house. and keep them from getting ored by only bringing them aroiund 4-5 times a month.
when we do go out - we split tabs or they pay.
and i promise you that this is mostly possible due to the quality of sex i give them.... sex marathons are my action date =)
these women typically have money and date guys with money...
im below middle class and have so many bills from a stupid youth that i cannot go out at all sometimes for months (i always have money tucked away for summer though).
i do mostly everything at my house. and keep them from getting ored by only bringing them aroiund 4-5 times a month.
when we do go out - we split tabs or they pay.
and i promise you that this is mostly possible due to the quality of sex i give them.... sex marathons are my action date =)
nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,438
- Reaction score
- 1,142
Obviously, if you're one of those guys who was born with a silver spoon in his mouth, this isn't a problem.
Even these guys shop at Wal-Mart.
Save Money, Live Better.
Cook better too! Get the idea?
Even these guys shop at Wal-Mart.
Save Money, Live Better.
Cook better too! Get the idea?