"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you handle a girl who keeps drunk calling you?

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There's this friend of mine who is an HB7 7.5 ish. Who keeps calling/texting me when drunk and saying random stuff like "i love you man" "im truly deeply madly in love with you" or "bastard" or some other random ****e like these.

Thus far i just ignore the msgs but i'm wondering if there is a way around this and if there is an underlying meaning i'm missing here?.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kanaka said:
There's this friend of mine who is an HB7 7.5 ish. Who keeps calling/texting me when drunk and saying random stuff like "i love you man" "im truly deeply madly in love with you" or "bastard" or some other random ****e like these.

Thus far i just ignore the msgs but i'm wondering if there is a way around this and if there is an underlying meaning i'm missing here?.
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dude hit her up when she's sober.
she likes u bro, remember, drunk girls thoughts are sober girls subconscious.
 
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She is toying with you kid!!! Ignore her and do not answer her text - if she asks if you received them say, "No, what did you say?" Study her response and see if it is of genuine interest or mocking.
 
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there's like three different views here.. which one is right i'm all for what Raikojo17 said.. hit it up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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