"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you handle a girl who keeps drunk calling you?

kanaka

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There's this friend of mine who is an HB7 7.5 ish. Who keeps calling/texting me when drunk and saying random stuff like "i love you man" "im truly deeply madly in love with you" or "bastard" or some other random ****e like these.

Thus far i just ignore the msgs but i'm wondering if there is a way around this and if there is an underlying meaning i'm missing here?.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Raikojo17

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kanaka said:
There's this friend of mine who is an HB7 7.5 ish. Who keeps calling/texting me when drunk and saying random stuff like "i love you man" "im truly deeply madly in love with you" or "bastard" or some other random ****e like these.

Thus far i just ignore the msgs but i'm wondering if there is a way around this and if there is an underlying meaning i'm missing here?.
dude hit her up when she's sober.
she likes u bro, remember, drunk girls thoughts are sober girls subconscious.
 
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She is toying with you kid!!! Ignore her and do not answer her text - if she asks if you received them say, "No, what did you say?" Study her response and see if it is of genuine interest or mocking.
 

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there's like three different views here.. which one is right i'm all for what Raikojo17 said.. hit it up
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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