How do you guys stay responsible with work and school?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

nicksaiz65

Master Don Juan

Sep 24, 2018

I do it by writing down a list of everything that I have to do that day. I don’t go to sleep until the majority of it is done. I use a planner to keep track of deadlines and I make sure that I don’t ever fall too far behind. Also, I always make sure that whatever I’m doing at the moment is on my purpose, and isn’t wasting my time. But that’s just my plan.

Listening to music to combat my laziness and accepting that I will be tired/working all the time helps too.

What do you all do?

Last edited: Sep 24, 2018

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.