how do you guys spin plates?

[garruk]

i've never been able to this well.

i can get girls relatively easily, and im almost always dating someone.

but i never really date girls i dont like or dont see a potential future with.

and when i do like a girl... i only want to hang out with that one girl. i stop bothering to date other girls and sometimes when i force myself to date other girls... i dont escalate because i dont have the desire to move forward wtih her.


is this something that you all face as well? or is it just me? I WANT to spin plates, i just find that I usually end up liking one girl more than another and stop talking to the other one/s.

 

[Poonani Maker]

i've never been able to this well.

i can get girls relatively easily, and im almost always dating someone.

but i never really date girls i dont like or dont see a potential future with.

and when i do like a girl... i only want to hang out with that one girl. i stop bothering to date other girls and sometimes when i force myself to date other girls... i dont escalate because i dont have the desire to move forward wtih her.


is this something that you all face as well? or is it just me? I WANT to spin plates, i just find that I usually end up liking one girl more than another and stop talking to the other one/s.

I'm the same way. I'll spin 'em, fvck 'em, but if she's not something I'd want long-term, just a taste test, then I'll do whatever behind her back. If she's one I'd like for my future, then I'll still cheat behind her back in a heartbeat cause life's short, but I will certainly make more time for her, and narrow my focus to her...UNTIL she fvcks up, and they almost ALWAYS do. Then I start spinning again to find another who (I know will fvck up) I'd consider being with and/or not be embarrassed to bring around my friends/family/co-workers.