"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how do you guys reject fat girls?

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I think the nicest way you can deter a fat girl from asking you out is by deterring her with your vanity over your own body weight. So dropping on to conversation gradually something like "the last time I was on holiday i put on so much weight, it took me a whole month to et rid of it, but I am glad i did, I was really conscious bout it". Hopefully if she isnt dumb, she will get the message.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheGameMaster said:
play a game called "buckaroo".

you start dancing with her and then wrap your arms around her and whisper in her ear "you fat f*cking b*tch!" then keep your arms around her and see how long you can keep them there till she bucks you off!
thats the best reply I've read all day. I think i'll try it next time
 

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Big girls need love too. You guys just can't provide it because your peckers are too short to reach the hole from on top of the mountain. Some of us don't have that issue.:rockon:
 

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Cinamon said:
I think the nicest way you can deter a fat girl from asking you out is by deterring her with your vanity over your own body weight. So dropping on to conversation gradually something like "the last time I was on holiday i put on so much weight, it took me a whole month to et rid of it, but I am glad i did, I was really conscious bout it". Hopefully if she isnt dumb, she will get the message.
haha, I'm actually going to get my personal trainer certificate soon, so maybe I'll tell the fatty that I'll give her her first weight loss session free.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smile back?

lazikia said:
and please don't tell me to go for their attractive friends, let's pretend they don't have any attractive friends

how do you react when a fat girl gives you strong eye contact and smiles right at you? how do you react when a fat girl has a crush on you?

Smile back? Seriously, why is this a problem? If you do what is necessary to attract women (preferably sane women), some will be of the fat variety. You don't have to do anything. They probably won't ask you out or throw their number at you, much less rape you. Treat them the same as the thin women you don't want to go out with. Geez, some of you fellows on these forums worry about some of the most trivial things...
 

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billybodthornton said:
Smile back? Seriously, why is this a problem? If you do what is necessary to attract women (preferably sane women), some will be of the fat variety. You don't have to do anything. They probably won't ask you out or throw their number at you, much less rape you. Treat them the same as the thin women you don't want to go out with. Geez, some of you fellows on these forums worry about some of the most trivial things...
Lol agreed....seriously what world are you guys living in....the vast majority of women (hot, fat, ugly, average) are too chickensh*t or prideful anyways to explicitly proposition you unless they're drunk, socially inept, or female players.

I've never had to flatly reject a girl because they usually reject themselves after they see I'm not biting their subtle IOI's.

Where are you guys finding these aggressive women???
 

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FutureSpartan said:
Lol agreed....seriously what world are you guys living in....the vast majority of women (hot, fat, ugly, average) are too chickensh*t or prideful anyways to explicitly proposition you unless they're drunk, socially inept, or female players.

I've never had to flatly reject a girl because they usually reject themselves after they see I'm not biting their subtle IOI's.

Where are you guys finding these aggressive women???
Trust me man, these girls never reject themselves, they keep on trying for no matter how hard I reject them. I remember this one fat girl that kept on trying to hug me and I yelled at her and told her not to hug me, then guess what? A week later she tries to hug me. I swear man, fat girls won't leave me alone!
 

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YogurtSlinger said:
Big girls need love too. You guys just can't provide it because your peckers are too short to reach the hole from on top of the mountain. Some of us don't have that issue.:rockon:
LOL. I slept with this really bulky guy once, he werent fat, just big frame, kinda wide. Anyway, i decided to do the cowgirl position on him, and I am quite a petite lady and my legs just wouldnt open wide enough for me to lower myself on to him properly. My knees were on the floor spread as wide apart as i could get them, but there was no deep penetration, :( so we had to switch to doggy position :up:
 

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I don't get approached by fat women except online. I'm hoping they just know better.

I usually reply to emails really snarky since it's pretty offensive to me when a fat chick thinks she has a prayer with this stud. I just don't like fat people in general given how hard i've worked on my body. Lazy is disgusting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cinamon said:
LOL. I slept with this really bulky guy once, he werent fat, just big frame, kinda wide. Anyway, i decided to do the cowgirl position on him, and I am quite a petite lady and my legs just wouldnt open wide enough for me to lower myself on to him properly. My knees were on the floor spread as wide apart as i could get them, but there was no deep penetration, :( so we had to switch to doggy position :up:
Oh wow that sucks lol.

What I would do to reject big girls was to talk about how much I like to bike, hike, etc. & then just tell them that I don't think they could keep up. That would usually turn them off lol b/c they often like guys who are as lazy as they are.
 

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There's some truth to the reverse psychology idea. I've noticed that. Once you figure out what attracts women, it's not that hard to figure out what repulses them. Just do the opposite of everything you would normally do. It comes in handy sometimes.

Being creepy works wonders for this.
 

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Lookem rite in the eye and say " Hunny you will never find mr rite till you break up with little debbie" works like a charm if their real big you might want to run after you say this LOL:rolleyes:
 

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catman said:
Lookem rite in the eye and say " Hunny you will never find mr rite till you break up with little debbie" works like a charm if their real big you might want to run after you say this LOL:rolleyes:
haha
 

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I think this thread could really be an eye opener
Lets stop being so shallow and start hitttin those HB1's
and stop posting about HB6 -9's constantly

Big girls need love too
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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K2000kidd said:
I think this thread could really be an eye opener
Lets stop being so shallow and start hitttin those HB1's
and stop posting about HB6 -9's constantly

Big girls need love too
Even HB1's have boyfriends these days now.
 
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