I think the nicest way you can deter a fat girl from asking you out is by deterring her with your vanity over your own body weight. So dropping on to conversation gradually something like "the last time I was on holiday i put on so much weight, it took me a whole month to et rid of it, but I am glad i did, I was really conscious bout it". Hopefully if she isnt dumb, she will get the message.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how do you guys reject fat girls?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DonGorgon
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Same way girls reject me.. cold and mean evil and cruel..lol yup.. i ignore them and or walk away just as they do to men..
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thats the best reply I've read all day. I think i'll try it next timeTheGameMaster said:
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Big girls need love too. You guys just can't provide it because your peckers are too short to reach the hole from on top of the mountain. Some of us don't have that issue.:rockon:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Smile back?
Smile back? Seriously, why is this a problem? If you do what is necessary to attract women (preferably sane women), some will be of the fat variety. You don't have to do anything. They probably won't ask you out or throw their number at you, much less rape you. Treat them the same as the thin women you don't want to go out with. Geez, some of you fellows on these forums worry about some of the most trivial things...
lazikia said:
Smile back? Seriously, why is this a problem? If you do what is necessary to attract women (preferably sane women), some will be of the fat variety. You don't have to do anything. They probably won't ask you out or throw their number at you, much less rape you. Treat them the same as the thin women you don't want to go out with. Geez, some of you fellows on these forums worry about some of the most trivial things...
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Lol agreed....seriously what world are you guys living in....the vast majority of women (hot, fat, ugly, average) are too chickensh*t or prideful anyways to explicitly proposition you unless they're drunk, socially inept, or female players.billybodthornton said:
I've never had to flatly reject a girl because they usually reject themselves after they see I'm not biting their subtle IOI's.
Where are you guys finding these aggressive women???
Trust me man, these girls never reject themselves, they keep on trying for no matter how hard I reject them. I remember this one fat girl that kept on trying to hug me and I yelled at her and told her not to hug me, then guess what? A week later she tries to hug me. I swear man, fat girls won't leave me alone!FutureSpartan said:
LOL. I slept with this really bulky guy once, he werent fat, just big frame, kinda wide. Anyway, i decided to do the cowgirl position on him, and I am quite a petite lady and my legs just wouldnt open wide enough for me to lower myself on to him properly. My knees were on the floor spread as wide apart as i could get them, but there was no deep penetration,YogurtSlinger said:
so we had to switch to doggy position I don't get approached by fat women except online. I'm hoping they just know better.
I usually reply to emails really snarky since it's pretty offensive to me when a fat chick thinks she has a prayer with this stud. I just don't like fat people in general given how hard i've worked on my body. Lazy is disgusting.
I usually reply to emails really snarky since it's pretty offensive to me when a fat chick thinks she has a prayer with this stud. I just don't like fat people in general given how hard i've worked on my body. Lazy is disgusting.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Oh wow that sucks lol.Cinamon said:LOL. I slept with this really bulky guy once, he werent fat, just big frame, kinda wide. Anyway, i decided to do the cowgirl position on him, and I am quite a petite lady and my legs just wouldnt open wide enough for me to lower myself on to him properly. My knees were on the floor spread as wide apart as i could get them, but there was no deep penetration,
What I would do to reject big girls was to talk about how much I like to bike, hike, etc. & then just tell them that I don't think they could keep up. That would usually turn them off lol b/c they often like guys who are as lazy as they are.
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There's some truth to the reverse psychology idea. I've noticed that. Once you figure out what attracts women, it's not that hard to figure out what repulses them. Just do the opposite of everything you would normally do. It comes in handy sometimes.
Being creepy works wonders for this.
Being creepy works wonders for this.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Even HB1's have boyfriends these days now.K2000kidd said: