I think the nicest way you can deter a fat girl from asking you out is by deterring her with your vanity over your own body weight. So dropping on to conversation gradually something like "the last time I was on holiday i put on so much weight, it took me a whole month to et rid of it, but I am glad i did, I was really conscious bout it". Hopefully if she isnt dumb, she will get the message.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how do you guys reject fat girls?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonGorgon
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Same way girls reject me.. cold and mean evil and cruel..lol yup.. i ignore them and or walk away just as they do to men..
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thats the best reply I've read all day. I think i'll try it next timeTheGameMaster said:
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Big girls need love too. You guys just can't provide it because your peckers are too short to reach the hole from on top of the mountain. Some of us don't have that issue.:rockon:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Smile back?
Smile back? Seriously, why is this a problem? If you do what is necessary to attract women (preferably sane women), some will be of the fat variety. You don't have to do anything. They probably won't ask you out or throw their number at you, much less rape you. Treat them the same as the thin women you don't want to go out with. Geez, some of you fellows on these forums worry about some of the most trivial things...
lazikia said:
Smile back? Seriously, why is this a problem? If you do what is necessary to attract women (preferably sane women), some will be of the fat variety. You don't have to do anything. They probably won't ask you out or throw their number at you, much less rape you. Treat them the same as the thin women you don't want to go out with. Geez, some of you fellows on these forums worry about some of the most trivial things...
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Lol agreed....seriously what world are you guys living in....the vast majority of women (hot, fat, ugly, average) are too chickensh*t or prideful anyways to explicitly proposition you unless they're drunk, socially inept, or female players.billybodthornton said:
I've never had to flatly reject a girl because they usually reject themselves after they see I'm not biting their subtle IOI's.
Where are you guys finding these aggressive women???
Trust me man, these girls never reject themselves, they keep on trying for no matter how hard I reject them. I remember this one fat girl that kept on trying to hug me and I yelled at her and told her not to hug me, then guess what? A week later she tries to hug me. I swear man, fat girls won't leave me alone!FutureSpartan said:
LOL. I slept with this really bulky guy once, he werent fat, just big frame, kinda wide. Anyway, i decided to do the cowgirl position on him, and I am quite a petite lady and my legs just wouldnt open wide enough for me to lower myself on to him properly. My knees were on the floor spread as wide apart as i could get them, but there was no deep penetration,YogurtSlinger said:
so we had to switch to doggy position I don't get approached by fat women except online. I'm hoping they just know better.
I usually reply to emails really snarky since it's pretty offensive to me when a fat chick thinks she has a prayer with this stud. I just don't like fat people in general given how hard i've worked on my body. Lazy is disgusting.
I usually reply to emails really snarky since it's pretty offensive to me when a fat chick thinks she has a prayer with this stud. I just don't like fat people in general given how hard i've worked on my body. Lazy is disgusting.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Oh wow that sucks lol.Cinamon said:LOL. I slept with this really bulky guy once, he werent fat, just big frame, kinda wide. Anyway, i decided to do the cowgirl position on him, and I am quite a petite lady and my legs just wouldnt open wide enough for me to lower myself on to him properly. My knees were on the floor spread as wide apart as i could get them, but there was no deep penetration,
What I would do to reject big girls was to talk about how much I like to bike, hike, etc. & then just tell them that I don't think they could keep up. That would usually turn them off lol b/c they often like guys who are as lazy as they are.
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There's some truth to the reverse psychology idea. I've noticed that. Once you figure out what attracts women, it's not that hard to figure out what repulses them. Just do the opposite of everything you would normally do. It comes in handy sometimes.
Being creepy works wonders for this.
Being creepy works wonders for this.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Even HB1's have boyfriends these days now.K2000kidd said: