“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do you guys regain confidence

Ease

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Iv hit a slump this week, i need to get back into acting and thinking like a man.

Might be the stress of exams recently and a strange misshap with the gf in bed. I finished way too early, which hasnt happened for ages but now my manly swagger has badly diminished.

What do you guys do to lose the depressive mood and get confidence back?

Been doing some running which has been good. Other ideas bros.
 

Julian

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are you working out? if not. start.
 

MeteorMash

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Ease said:
Iv hit a slump this week, i need to get back into acting and thinking like a man.

Might be the stress of exams recently and a strange misshap with the gf in bed. I finished way too early, which hasnt happened for ages but now my manly swagger has badly diminished.

What do you guys do to lose the depressive mood and get confidence back?

Been doing some running which has been good. Other ideas bros.
All I can say is that this is not the end of the world, so don't act like it is

confidence comes from not only believing in yourself, but being willing to get RIGHT back up when you fall down

It's easy to be confident and upbeat when everything's goin your way

The real challenge, the true confidence....believing in yourself even when bad things happen

Start thinking ahead, not behind.
 

CaptainJ

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Ease said:
Iv hit a slump this week, i need to get back into acting and thinking like a man.

Might be the stress of exams recently and a strange misshap with the gf in bed. I finished way too early, which hasnt happened for ages but now my manly swagger has badly diminished.

What do you guys do to lose the depressive mood and get confidence back?

Been doing some running which has been good. Other ideas bros.
Chin up.
No literally.

Chin up

Whenever I lose my confidence, all I have to do is assume a manly posture (Straight back, chest out, chin up, laid back, confident smile) and my confidence returns instantly.
 

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nothing builds self confidence like accomplishment.

set some goals and accomplish them.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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