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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
how do you guys react when a girl says that you're playing with her emotions?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
stevo
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React? No reaction.
There is nothing to react to. Your action is "So moving on. . ."
If you get responses like that, you're doing something right.
Couple days ago, girl says "you suck at texting" No response, I just continued the convo. .
I sure do suck at texting, I don't initiate, I respond when I want, I make the date and stop convo.
A DJ stands out, she cant understand why her panties respond uncontrollably to you being different and explaining the mystery to her would work against you.
There is nothing to react to. Your action is "So moving on. . ."
If you get responses like that, you're doing something right.
Couple days ago, girl says "you suck at texting" No response, I just continued the convo. .
I sure do suck at texting, I don't initiate, I respond when I want, I make the date and stop convo.
A DJ stands out, she cant understand why her panties respond uncontrollably to you being different and explaining the mystery to her would work against you.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I joke with her and tease her... get her to laugh. Anytime a women starts with this type of convo, you are doing things right. Remember with women it's all about emotion, positive or negative it does not matter, if you is upset with you she is thinking about you... anytime she is emotionally thinking about you its good.
So when a women gets all serious about her emotions, you need to turn that into a positive, joke around with her, get her to smile. Works like a charm, she wants to know that her emotions are not going to get to you and she could be testing you to see if you start acting weird or needy... just be charming and ****y and realize that you are doing things right.
So when a women gets all serious about her emotions, you need to turn that into a positive, joke around with her, get her to smile. Works like a charm, she wants to know that her emotions are not going to get to you and she could be testing you to see if you start acting weird or needy... just be charming and ****y and realize that you are doing things right.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Playful answers are all well and good, but it's wise, methinks, to covertly try to understand why she thinks that way. Her saying this could be just the usual female background noise or it could even be a legitimate complaint on her part if you're not socially calibrated.
Not that I disagree with the answers above at all, but I'm a believer in situational awareness. Many a man has been dumped seemingly (to him) out of the blue when the hints were actually screaming at him all along.
Not that I disagree with the answers above at all, but I'm a believer in situational awareness. Many a man has been dumped seemingly (to him) out of the blue when the hints were actually screaming at him all along.