I've always wondered this. I'm not talking about going out and meeting new girls or getting laid at a party, I mean when people talk about keeping a bunch of girls on a steady rotation. Do you have to consciously scale back other activities? Between my hobbies, fitness, school, work, volunteering, etc I can't see how I would ever be able to (or want to) maintain more than one pseudo relationship.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how do you guys have time for "plate spinning"?
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