I've always wondered this. I'm not talking about going out and meeting new girls or getting laid at a party, I mean when people talk about keeping a bunch of girls on a steady rotation. Do you have to consciously scale back other activities? Between my hobbies, fitness, school, work, volunteering, etc I can't see how I would ever be able to (or want to) maintain more than one pseudo relationship.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
how do you guys have time for "plate spinning"?
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