"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

do you let your feelings stew for for a week until it dissipated?

I feel so angry about issue at work that I don't feel happy about doing exercise this week.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't mix work and personal life. Once my 8 hours are done, I don't think about work.
 
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give me the strengh to accecpt the things i cannot change

the courage to change the things i can

and the wisdom to know the difference
 
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This is a great question. I work with a group of women, including my supervisor..and they are all complete b eeches.

I try to set intrinsic goals that make me feel good about myself so I don't get wrapped up in things at work..like musical instruments etc.

Unfortunetly, everyone knows that the economy is down and they can use that to be a holes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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