"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

picard

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

do you let your feelings stew for for a week until it dissipated?

I feel so angry about issue at work that I don't feel happy about doing exercise this week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't mix work and personal life. Once my 8 hours are done, I don't think about work.
 

backbreaker

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give me the strengh to accecpt the things i cannot change

the courage to change the things i can

and the wisdom to know the difference
 
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This is a great question. I work with a group of women, including my supervisor..and they are all complete b eeches.

I try to set intrinsic goals that make me feel good about myself so I don't get wrapped up in things at work..like musical instruments etc.

Unfortunetly, everyone knows that the economy is down and they can use that to be a holes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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