"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

do you let your feelings stew for for a week until it dissipated?

I feel so angry about issue at work that I don't feel happy about doing exercise this week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't mix work and personal life. Once my 8 hours are done, I don't think about work.
 

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give me the strengh to accecpt the things i cannot change

the courage to change the things i can

and the wisdom to know the difference
 
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This is a great question. I work with a group of women, including my supervisor..and they are all complete b eeches.

I try to set intrinsic goals that make me feel good about myself so I don't get wrapped up in things at work..like musical instruments etc.

Unfortunetly, everyone knows that the economy is down and they can use that to be a holes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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