"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

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how do you guys get rid of anger about issues at work?

do you let your feelings stew for for a week until it dissipated?

I feel so angry about issue at work that I don't feel happy about doing exercise this week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't mix work and personal life. Once my 8 hours are done, I don't think about work.
 

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give me the strengh to accecpt the things i cannot change

the courage to change the things i can

and the wisdom to know the difference
 
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This is a great question. I work with a group of women, including my supervisor..and they are all complete b eeches.

I try to set intrinsic goals that make me feel good about myself so I don't get wrapped up in things at work..like musical instruments etc.

Unfortunetly, everyone knows that the economy is down and they can use that to be a holes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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