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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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How do you guys find time to spin plates?

SandHawk

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I'm actually wondering how the hell you guys find time to spin some plates, because I'm currently having a really hard time trying to get plates working. I currently have 2 plates, and I find it pretty difficult to schedule time for any of them(working on a 3rd tonight, to make things even more complex, and a potential fourth is coming up this week).

I have my own business, my hobbies, my social life, and all of them are more important than a plate. While I seriously enjoy giving a girl a good c0cking, I also enjoy my hobbies or I'm too tied up in business.

So, how do you manage plates? If you have any of course...
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spinning plate is not an all day event. Also you talk like constant communication is essential when it is not.

Just because you have 4 girls spinning doesn't mean you need to talk to each everyday and see each daily.

You send mass texts to multiple plates and whoever shows more interest for that particular meeting wins YOU.

Don't try to take maria to the movies ..karen to a concert...jessica horseback riding NOOOOOO you pick one activity and send that invitation to as many as possible.
 

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Hm, that's actually a great idea. What I do is actually what you said: Plan a thing with 1 girl, but have a backup in case she cancels, and then go do it. Mass-texting and having them win me over is much more convenient.

But, I do have a favourite chick when it comes to rough wild sex, and since today is my birthday, she can come over and claw me open. Which will hopefully better than last night's sex, chick was inexperienced as f*ck. Ah well, at least I get to train her :D.
 

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What's up bro. No need to worry about spinning multiple plates. What matters most is to keep yourself HAPPY. If building your business, watching it grow, staying in touch with you friends & family is what keeps your happy, that's all you need.

We're both alike - I no longer have time to spin multiple plates. For a change, just stick to one to two girl at a time. Find someone worth spending your valuable time with. Don't ever stress over having to maintain a stable of chicks to invest your time with :)

But if you really want to know the answer to your question, it's just time management really.
 

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Allurre said:
What's up bro. No need to worry about spinning multiple plates. What matters most is to keep yourself HAPPY. If building your business, watching it grow, staying in touch with you friends & family is what keeps your happy, that's all you need.

We're both alike - I no longer have time to spin multiple plates. For a change, just stick to one to two girl at a time. Find someone worth spending your valuable time with. Don't ever stress over having to maintain a stable of chicks to invest your time with :)

But if you really want to know the answer to your question, it's just time management really.
You got to be dumb. What u said doesn't make sense. You say don't spin multiple plates and then go on to say to find some one worth his time. Well one effective way to find someone worthy of your time is to spin plates.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tiguere said:
You got to be dumb. What u said doesn't make sense. You say don't spin multiple plates and then go on to say to find some one worth his time. Well one effective way to find someone worthy of your time is to spin plates.

Tiguere. You need to focus on your comprehension level bro :)

I suggested not to go on multiple plates since it is unnecessary. I didn't discourage the intent on meeting more women, you just don't have to bag multiple plates IF you don't have the time.

If spinning plates = finding someone worthy of your time, yet you feel like it's conflicting with your schedule, it's not worth it.
 

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Allurre said:
If spinning plates = finding someone worthy of your time, yet you feel like it's conflicting with your schedule, it's not worth it.
In all honesty, I disagree with you there. Mainly, because finding a plate that is actually worth my time to be exclusive with, is time consuming. I can't say after 3 or 4 dates if a girl is actually worth my time, because I've only seen her fun sides. I need a girl that is compatible with me both sexually and on a personal level. Those take time to find out, because most of the stuff I sexually enjoy doesn't come out until after a few weeks(World of kink, ****, etc). If a girl isn't into that, she'll find herself quickly shoved towards the exit.

But you're not going to pop that on third date, tie her up, sprinkle her with candle wax and f*ck her in the ass. Sure, some girls did let me on a 3rd date, but those were mainly insane. And most of the girls never even tried anything related to kink, so I have to introduce it gradually.

But you do make a point, if it interferes with my schedule, don't do it. But on the other hand, I do crave sex(a lot) and so I want to spend some time on that. Currently, all my plates are fun to hang out, and I usually have them over late at night, have some fun, go to sleep and get up early in the morning again.
 
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