"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you guys find time to spin plates?

SandHawk

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I'm actually wondering how the hell you guys find time to spin some plates, because I'm currently having a really hard time trying to get plates working. I currently have 2 plates, and I find it pretty difficult to schedule time for any of them(working on a 3rd tonight, to make things even more complex, and a potential fourth is coming up this week).

I have my own business, my hobbies, my social life, and all of them are more important than a plate. While I seriously enjoy giving a girl a good c0cking, I also enjoy my hobbies or I'm too tied up in business.

So, how do you manage plates? If you have any of course...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spinning plate is not an all day event. Also you talk like constant communication is essential when it is not.

Just because you have 4 girls spinning doesn't mean you need to talk to each everyday and see each daily.

You send mass texts to multiple plates and whoever shows more interest for that particular meeting wins YOU.

Don't try to take maria to the movies ..karen to a concert...jessica horseback riding NOOOOOO you pick one activity and send that invitation to as many as possible.
 

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Hm, that's actually a great idea. What I do is actually what you said: Plan a thing with 1 girl, but have a backup in case she cancels, and then go do it. Mass-texting and having them win me over is much more convenient.

But, I do have a favourite chick when it comes to rough wild sex, and since today is my birthday, she can come over and claw me open. Which will hopefully better than last night's sex, chick was inexperienced as f*ck. Ah well, at least I get to train her :D.
 

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What's up bro. No need to worry about spinning multiple plates. What matters most is to keep yourself HAPPY. If building your business, watching it grow, staying in touch with you friends & family is what keeps your happy, that's all you need.

We're both alike - I no longer have time to spin multiple plates. For a change, just stick to one to two girl at a time. Find someone worth spending your valuable time with. Don't ever stress over having to maintain a stable of chicks to invest your time with :)

But if you really want to know the answer to your question, it's just time management really.
 

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Allurre said:
What's up bro. No need to worry about spinning multiple plates. What matters most is to keep yourself HAPPY. If building your business, watching it grow, staying in touch with you friends & family is what keeps your happy, that's all you need.

We're both alike - I no longer have time to spin multiple plates. For a change, just stick to one to two girl at a time. Find someone worth spending your valuable time with. Don't ever stress over having to maintain a stable of chicks to invest your time with :)

But if you really want to know the answer to your question, it's just time management really.
You got to be dumb. What u said doesn't make sense. You say don't spin multiple plates and then go on to say to find some one worth his time. Well one effective way to find someone worthy of your time is to spin plates.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tiguere said:
You got to be dumb. What u said doesn't make sense. You say don't spin multiple plates and then go on to say to find some one worth his time. Well one effective way to find someone worthy of your time is to spin plates.

Tiguere. You need to focus on your comprehension level bro :)

I suggested not to go on multiple plates since it is unnecessary. I didn't discourage the intent on meeting more women, you just don't have to bag multiple plates IF you don't have the time.

If spinning plates = finding someone worthy of your time, yet you feel like it's conflicting with your schedule, it's not worth it.
 

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Allurre said:
If spinning plates = finding someone worthy of your time, yet you feel like it's conflicting with your schedule, it's not worth it.
In all honesty, I disagree with you there. Mainly, because finding a plate that is actually worth my time to be exclusive with, is time consuming. I can't say after 3 or 4 dates if a girl is actually worth my time, because I've only seen her fun sides. I need a girl that is compatible with me both sexually and on a personal level. Those take time to find out, because most of the stuff I sexually enjoy doesn't come out until after a few weeks(World of kink, ****, etc). If a girl isn't into that, she'll find herself quickly shoved towards the exit.

But you're not going to pop that on third date, tie her up, sprinkle her with candle wax and f*ck her in the ass. Sure, some girls did let me on a 3rd date, but those were mainly insane. And most of the girls never even tried anything related to kink, so I have to introduce it gradually.

But you do make a point, if it interferes with my schedule, don't do it. But on the other hand, I do crave sex(a lot) and so I want to spend some time on that. Currently, all my plates are fun to hang out, and I usually have them over late at night, have some fun, go to sleep and get up early in the morning again.
 
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