"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dcfball

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.. you're out(party or bar) and you meet a chick who is very into you, but doesnt want to come home with you that night?

I mean kissing/sitting on your lap/generally on your dick hypothetically speaking =P

Do you call the next week or just write her off?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Number close, and get outta there. You wanna act like you don't care. carry a level of mystery/challenge about you. You don't wanna seem desperate. Get that number, and call back in 3 days.
 
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bump..

this is general thought btw. not asking for advice on a situation
 
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PERSIST PERSIST PERSIST PERSIST and if she really does not want to she's either High Maintanence or purdy and that can be good THEN you can get her nr... Persistance > Resistance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think you should only date sluts who put out on the first night. Frequent a bar that has regulars and find the girl that doesn't go home with a guy each night and dont waste your time with her, rather go after the girl who goes home with a different guy each night or the waitress that goes home with a different customer each night.
 
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