"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well for the second or third time in my life, i went to a nightclub/bar (i am really not into theese places, i think they are too laud and noicy).

What happened, since i have no problem approaching people when i have a reason for it, i was told by my friend to approach all of theese girls, so we could play a bit of tablesoccer with them.
After playing with a couple of girls, getting a few numbers, i desided to try to go for a Kiss, and so i did.
The girl i Kissed was on my lap for half an hour, we were talking and she was really into me.
We made out, and - for fun - when she asked my to type in my number to her phone, i named my self. "Remember to call" (Because before this, we were talking about how people only gave/took numbers to be friendly, and would never call back/answer).

Well, i took contact to her today, in the afternoon (The episode was yesterday) and she answerd and we texted a bit, then all the suddently she stopped replying (NOT IMPORTANT). My problem is, since i have never tried doing clubbing-Game for real, how do i initate a second date?


Edit; Btw. and could it be, that i was just being gamed for the kiss, and that she really would not have anything more than this? (I have herd that a lot of clubs girls, are kind'A cheap, and do stuff like that?
- Today i kind of regret that i had forgotten a Condom, i just might think that i could have gotten more than i kiss that night :b
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Someone Much cooler

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give her time and space, forget about her do some other stuff **** some other girls and then touch base with her. remember your a very busy and important man
 

Bratt2230

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Hm...

Someone Much cooler said:
give her time and space, forget about her do some other stuff **** some other girls and then touch base with her. remember your a very busy and important man
Hmm... i am kind of asking how to iniatate the second date, i would like to go on one, but should i DO IT, or should i wait for HER to do it :) ?
 

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I think she's looking for a reaction. Just wait a bit and reinitiate the convo by a statement or something. As for Day 2's.. I'm gonna go into full detail on PM.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
I think she's looking for a reaction. Just wait a bit and reinitiate the convo by a statement or something. As for Day 2's.. I'm gonna go into full detail on PM.
Thanks (-: !

And i have thought about waiting 2 more days before i reinitate a conversation. IF she DOES NOT Answer, then i ofc. get the signals hehe
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ said:
As for Day 2's.. I'm gonna go into full detail on PM.
Hey!
Mind sending me a copy of that PM?

I am learning myself and I'm sure there is some good advise there.

If its private, no problem, have a great day!

Cheers!
 

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Damn, Again, 2-3 TXT and she ignorec me again..

I wont answer here text, and then insted, call her wedensday around 7pm, just to speak to her, to se what this **** is.
 

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Do NOT Call her out on ignoring your texts. Why? Because this will make you seem needy and will turn the whole deal into something serious, where you'll push her against the wall with a "You should reply to me" attitude.

Ignore that completely, just be cool, ****y, funny and in an attitude of someone she wants to be with. Some girls just aren't that much into texting, which is fine, just don't get worked up if not everyone does exactly what you want.
 

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Sandhawk. I am not sure what you are saying there?

Am i supposed NOT TO CALL HER, or SHOULD i call her?

- She did answer the text, i waited 2 hours, replied, we texted 2-3 messeges (within 10 mins), and again she ignored the 2nd or 3rd messege.

Should i ignore her next messege for a day, and then just like call her up?
Or what is YOUR advice?
 

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Oh, my advice is DO call her. Text game isn't working very well, so you have to gear up a notch to phone game. But, don't call her out on ignoring the texts. Just forget about that part.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks! And yess, i would not mention the texting, i need some planing though, i am not used to call "strangers" on the phone.

But what the hell, i better give it a try, so the next time - when something better appears - ill be prepared hehe :)

Thanks for the Advice :)
 
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