"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you guys deal with blurs?

Megaman XIV

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Hey guys, maybe you can shed some light here.

I want to know how you deal with blurs. For the record, a blur is when a girl stops responding to your calls and messages, even though she was initially interested.

I tend to just kick them to the curb no matter what. Sometimes I will tell them that this isn't working out. Other times I've left a nasty voicemail.

What do you guys do in this situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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Dont waste time on sh1t, ignore and find someone better than her. Water off a duck's back...
 

zinc4

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i will always try one more time for the lay and then drop it...as long as you are emotionally detached in the first place, it won't matter.....some rare times the extra attempt has paid off...most of the times not....but it never matters if you are detached...that's the beauty of detachment...even if you fail miserably multiple times, it doesn't matter.....would you leave an angry voice mail to a kindergartner who flaked on you???? no of course not, because you wouldn't care....don't view them as people...view them only as ***** that you are simply trying to enter...

another metaphor...does it ruin your day or make you upset if you pick up a basketball and shoot for a three pointer and miss it badly??? ....no of course not...minor annoyance at worst...
 
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